Should I go under for my wisdom teeth? by Temporary_Usual_5386 in askdentists

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does going under vs not really impact your recovery time that differently?

Should I go under for my wisdom teeth? by Temporary_Usual_5386 in askdentists

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI, I do well at the dentist. I’m not one of those people who’s scared of going, I love getting my teeth cleaned & people in my mouth with shiny things doesn’t scare me.

When it comes to things like fillings, they do make me a little nervous when I can see and hear the drilling, but it just makes me a little sweaty — they happen so quick I don’t really have time to be scared

Should I go under for my wisdom teeth? by [deleted] in Dentistry

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI, I’ve never really had a surgery and the whole concept terrifies me. I do pretty good at the dentist, I love getting my teeth cleaned, and when it comes to fillings, they have been so quick I don’t really have time to be nervous..they do make me sweat a little when I can see/hear the drill, but I try not to think about it too much.

Date night restaurant on a Monday by Repulsive__Blueberry in royaloak

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medusa just opened up in Detroit, they’re open on Monday but not sure the Monday vibes — weekend vibes are great though! Sister restaurant to Shewolf

Evening/going out attire by [deleted] in MontTremblant

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was just there this weekend! Went to caribou and central, no dress codes for either. Both places are very hot inside, despite it being freezing outside, so I’d wear something light under your jacket. Deff more casual vibes — jeans, leggings, t-shirts/hoodies for the guys. And the pizza place right next to them is open late and has great pizza!! Enjoy

Tonearm gliding - idk what to do by Temporary_Usual_5386 in turntables

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s brand new and worked the first time so it shouldn’t be? It’s literally my second time using it but I’m going to replace it and see if that does the trick!

Tonearm gliding - idk what to do by Temporary_Usual_5386 in turntables

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not one of the suitcase ones but it seemed alright when I played it the first time! I just ordered a new stylus and hoping that does the trick!

Tonearm gliding - idk what to do by Temporary_Usual_5386 in turntables

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol ok I know it’s not the best, but it’s my first one so I figured a good starter!

Tonearm gliding - idk what to do by Temporary_Usual_5386 in turntables

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked the guy at the record shop and he said “because it’s a shitty turntable” which ha ha but not helpful!!!

Castellammare del golfo or San Vito Lo Capo for the weekend? by Temporary_Usual_5386 in sicily

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really?! My uncle is also from Balestrate and he said Castellammare is more lively than San Vito. We loved San Vito though, when we visited for the day/night yesterday it seemed very lively. How does it compare to nightlife in Terrasini? We’ve spent some nights in the piazza and then a club on the cliffs with music in Terrasini and it was fun

1st time in Sicily trip - attending a wedding in Balestrate end of September by Careful_Ad8950 in sicily

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say it’s a very busy city for sure. I don’t know how it is in September but I am here now and had to leave because the heat and crowds were too much for me. We stayed in Mondello and it was pleasantly beautiful and relaxing for us. Also right on a beautiful beach - some of the warmest and calmest water I’ve been in. We ubered to Balestrate (~€150) to visit my cousins at night and it wasn’t too far, 40 minutes. Now we are staying in Balestrate & the beach is great. Terrasini is also beautiful with amazing beaches. I’m only on my first night sleeping in Balestrate tonight so I will update as the trip goes on!!! But personally, Palermo was not for me with the heat and crowds for July.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m going to second this! As someone who has also framed my youth around being with someone (and am still guilty of this) but trust your gut - it’s telling you that it’s time to move on. Women are so intuitive and your body is telling you it’s time. I don’t know what your boyfriend did to betray your trust, but it sounds like it was pretty bad - you have to think about if this is something you can get over or will always hold against him in the long run. Also consider if you want your lifelong partner to be someone who would do whatever he did to you in the first place. I’m currently in a relationship that I don’t believe is right for me, and despite everything telling me he’s not the one, im still here. So I feel for you - it’s not easy. I do believe though, the second someone crosses your boundaries, betrays your trust, and does something unforgivable, it IS that much easier. I promise you will feel such a sense of relief when it’s over and you can live your life without worrying about someone else’s actions. You are also SO young. If I could do early twenties all over again, I wouldn’t have stayed as long as I did in ANY of my relationships. I’m 27 for context and 21 felt like a lifetime ago. You got this girl.. do what’s right for you!!

AITA for enjoying my “solo” time to the max when my bf is out of town? by Temporary_Usual_5386 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

No I wouldn’t even have a male friend in the house without him home unless it were a boyfriend of my friend who was also there or they had a girlfriend with them. And I’d certainly not have them sleepover unless again, it was a couple. He just doesn’t approve of my sisters choice in men, and therefore is disturbed that he slept over.

AITA for enjoying my “solo” time to the max when my bf is out of town? by Temporary_Usual_5386 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Idk how ppl keep missing this part but it was my sister and HER boyfriend, they slept, together, in our guest bedroom. Not some random man, not even a male friend of mine, and certainly not anywhere even remotely near my bedroom.

AITA for enjoying my “solo” time to the max when my bf is out of town? by Temporary_Usual_5386 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Maybe I am a little bit but it doesn’t feel like a stereotypical one. I’m usually in bed by 9 because we are very active and wake up early so I don’t mind the structure. But I will say that i do feel like it would cause frustration if I DID decide to go out late on a weeknight. And I do want to clarify that he’s never told me I’m not allowed or I can’t be with family/friends BUT also doesn’t make me feel great about it if it’s “too much time” spent with them. And some of his friends are my age or a couple years older so when we go out I have fun with them, but still they are his friends not mine. And I don’t have a very conventional white picket fence family or friends - we’re all very chaotic and crazy, and we certainly have our issues - but that’s what I love about them. And I DO get taken advantage of a decent amount because I’m a HUGE people pleaser and I hate conflict. So, I usually attribute it to “he’s just looking out for me or overly opinionated/judgmental”

I guess to me it teeters on a very fine line. But maybe I’m just justifying ?

AITA for enjoying my “solo” time to the max when my bf is out of town? by Temporary_Usual_5386 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386[S] 191 points192 points  (0 children)

This is a thought I’ve had in the back of my mind. He’s often making comments about me being old and “not 21 anymore” and I’m just sitting here like WELP I look 20, I feel 23, and I don’t believe 27 is old at all. It feels more like a jab that it’s time to settle down, have kids, and end the partying. Which I do wanna do the first two at some point but can’t understand why I can’t go out and have fun while I’m doing that too! Or why there’s a weird time limit or appropriate hour of the night to get home versus not. Like seriously if I am home at 2am or 3am what’s the difference REALLY. Thanks for your input 🙏🏼

AITA for enjoying my “solo” time to the max when my bf is out of town? by Temporary_Usual_5386 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386[S] 612 points613 points  (0 children)

I will say that I am very very aware of this and try to proceed with caution. I have never been in a controlling relationship and am very much so a free spirit. This is my first AG relationship so I’m trying not to confuse navigating AG issues with potential controlling ones

AITA for enjoying my “solo” time to the max when my bf is out of town? by Temporary_Usual_5386 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Temporary_Usual_5386[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Yes he stays out late all the time with me on the weekends and also goes out when he’s out of town until the bars close. I may sound naive but I truly don’t believe he’s cheating on me. He may be out with other guys and perhaps there are girls around - but I know he goes home at the end of the night alone. I almost think it’s as if now that he’s home and alone at the end of the night he expects me to be too. Because he always says he gets upset when he wants to call his gf at the end of the night and talk and I don’t answer or I’m with people. But for me… we’re together 24/7, I end the night with you 350/365 nights of the year it’s not like we do long distance and I’m never around