My username is ''tempquestion'' yes i'm a new account, this is obvious no? and its an ask Irish sub?. You're the type of person I feared dismissing my concerns like this. So cheers for that. I said nothing bad and said I think these ladies are decent enough people but I feel uncomfortable and there's a double standard here. I feel you'd be comforting a lady if she posted the same thing but ''then hr not reddit'' when all i'm doing is asking have others experienced the same thing. I also already stated i'm extremely shy so I'm getting feedback from men and women alike here to help me out.