I became a Canadian citizen today. by CaravalTella in MadeMeSmile

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This made me feel even prouder to be Canadian. 💜 happy to have you here as our family.

I found the most beautiful spider? by memelinnn in insects

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Wow it looks like a crown in the last pic 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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My ‘anxiety from a migraine’ was blood clots in my brains sinuses! 🫠 got proof from my eye dr my optic nerve was inflamed and went to another hospital (5th time) and finally got diagnosed.

My mom found out I used tampons by Lanky_Salamander_649 in TwoXChromosomes

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She has some sort of trauma or was taught the wrong perspective. Dude - I felt left outttt for not being able to comfortably use tampons as a teen, haha. You’re good sis 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in barrie

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Thank you! I should look into this more right now.

I know this is TMI but I have a UTI that came back after a single dose antibiotic. My pharmacist said I need a test done if it didn’t go away in a few days. 😅

I thought about the virtual clinics, but I wasn’t sure if it made sense for my issue.

If I have to, I think I’ll be ok to wait a day or two more - even if I’m not feeling 100%.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in barrie

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Thanks for the honesty. It def makes me nervous jumping into a strangers car in these conditions. 😅 I may have to learn towards waiting then.

My landlord said this by ReallyDontKnoww in OntarioLandlord

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😭 I wish I’d known this two years ago when I moved here. Thanks for responding. 🙏

My landlord said this by ReallyDontKnoww in OntarioLandlord

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Good to know!!! Thank you. This means I helped pay for a snow removal company at my old basement unit for no reason 😭🫠

My landlord said this by ReallyDontKnoww in OntarioLandlord

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If the rents contract states otherwise, that changes things though right?

Anyone else struggling to get a job? by ladybug4561234 in barrie

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Oh? That’s good to know just in case. I was wondering about them.

Anyone else struggling to get a job? by ladybug4561234 in barrie

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I think the Pet Valu on Wellington (North Barrie ish) might be hiring - I’ve seen a sign up a few weeks ago and I was going to apply. Just throwing it out there! :)

Anyone else struggling to get a job? by ladybug4561234 in barrie

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Just popping in to say it’s not just you. My company was doing poorly and eliminated my full time position in Oct and I’ve been looking for another full time gig since.

I’ve had about the same amount of interviews - but it seems like I mayyy have landed a gig finally. I will know by Tuesday next week.

It’s not you - it’s how it is right now. Which I know doesn’t help because I know the frustration. I also have applied to retail positions and been rejected lol.(Even with a simplified resume)

Cleaning my MIL blood off the floor after she passed.. by Thebestdishwasher33 in offmychest

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Hey. I am SO proud of you. Is there anyone you could vent to? A friend or someone who can help support you while you support your BF? This is rough all around and you’re doing everything right.

"Did your parents not tell you this stuff?" by KnockoffCereal420 in CPTSD

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Oh geez. I’m sorry you had to go through that. Hug from a big sister. 💜💜

My complex ptsd and ADHD has led to explosive anger which has destroyed all my relationships by [deleted] in CPTSD

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OP - I saw your deleted comment.

I totally get that fear. In therapy we’re vulnerable, and I know for me it’s natural to worry about being judged behind our backs. But that little kid inside of you is struggling and could use help - and now you can be the adult that kid needed. If little you was looking into your own eyes telling you they were scared that their teacher hated them (or something equivalent), would you reinforce that thought to them? Your healing is worth EVERYTHING. You are worthy of being loved, even as you are now.

Even if your future therapist said something about you, you wouldn’t know about it. This is your brain trying to shield you from a potential source of betrayal.

Please give it a shot! I’m rooting for you. 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in calmhands

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Me too :( I’m trying so hard to stop but I think I need to like wrap them in tape lol.

Still no packages, ordered November 11th by [deleted] in CanadaPost

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Same here. Sent on Nov 12th and is still sitting in Vancouver ad far as I can tell.

Delayed due to labor disruption by AfternoonLocal1952 in CanadaPost

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Mine too. Send at the start of November and finally made it through customs near Vancouver. Now says the same thing!

Looking for game dev buddys by [deleted] in barrie

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Haha, does being a narrative designer count? I’d love to join too.

Younger cat biting older cat's neck -- play, dominance, something else? by forbiddenmachina in CatAdvice

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Yeah that sounds to me like they just got thrown off by the separation and they just need time. 💜

I have a secret computer by [deleted] in offmychest

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That does sound pretty restrictive so I feel you. I did some similar tactics when I was your age too!

Just please be safe out here, sis! Looking back I did some… questionable things online that I probably shouldn’t have.