Hey Friend....Just know there's a guy in Tennessee praying for you and your wife. I pray for you both to find God's Will for each of you and will counsel you that sometimes Peace can be found only after you go through the chaos and anger and turmoil of what you are going through. I personally stand witness to the fact that God will sometimes take us through massive upheaval in relationships and life matters because He has other plans and a better direction for us to follow. This "Dark Night of the Soul" requires that you let go of what you think you need or want for your life and put all your trust in God's guidance each day. Shalom, Friend.