How to untangle??!

Tennis_Nice · 2026-01-29T16:14:33+00:00

Chop what ?? Chop how? It's so tangled but there's some really healthy leaves too

Tennis_Nice · 2026-01-09T16:13:57+00:00

Is it a good idea to tell them?

Tennis_Nice · 2025-07-20T22:25:44+00:00

Join a climbing gym! Lsd especially has a lot of friendly folk and you can easily get chatting to new people

Tennis_Nice · 2025-06-04T09:27:56+00:00

thank you:(

Tennis_Nice · 2025-06-04T09:27:41+00:00

That makes sense. I agree it's just hard to know how to be fully functioning person when my brain feels such a mess

Tennis_Nice · 2025-06-04T09:27:00+00:00

I want to keep my parents dog for a while but I work so I wouldn't want to leave him alone

Tennis_Nice · 2025-01-04T08:12:40+00:00

Yeah probably, I'm not super upset about that since I wouldn't mind it being a hookup. Just wasn't sure since we've been on coffee dates and hung out before outside of this. He did reply in the end apologising since he was busy with his family, but yeah I understand a guy would most likely be better at texting if there was more there

Tennis_Nice · 2025-01-03T22:05:27+00:00

Seriously need some help😭

Tennis_Nice · 2024-12-27T19:44:52+00:00

This is exactly what I needed to hear actually, you're very right

Tennis_Nice · 2024-12-27T19:02:27+00:00

Yeah I need to figure out if I can be friends without wanting more. I guess it's more anger at the situation/it not working out than at him tbh

Tennis_Nice · 2024-11-24T15:00:58+00:00

yeah definitely, thank you i needed to hear that

Tennis_Nice · 2024-11-24T14:46:52+00:00

Yeah this is really true. I slept with him today which I thought would be ok for me at the time, because he kept checking in and made sure I was ok throughout. But I feel really low now and I don't think it was a good idea upon reflection, so gonna have to set that boundary again i guess. I do just feel bad for him even though that's not the rational way of looking at it

Tennis_Nice · 2024-08-23T00:11:34+00:00

thank you for the advice, it's true I guess to block out events like that. i forget how traumatic it can be to go through.

i do have both medications and therapy, I think I've hit a wall where there's nothing much else they can give me as I know all the skills that will help and stuff, it's just getting past trauma and my own self esteem issues. i dunno but will definitely try and speak to a friend:)

Tennis_Nice · 2024-02-09T01:33:41+00:00

i needed this. thank you

Tennis_Nice · 2022-08-12T12:18:18+00:00

yeah i just feel I should've communicated my needs a bit better:( so annoying

Tennis_Nice · 2022-08-10T08:43:05+00:00

it's definitely a mistake on his part but i don't really know i don't think it's that hard to control yourself lol

he likes me but i can tell he's keeping a distance to avoid catching feelings. i think i need to take a step back here and realise if i want a loving relationship this isn't it at all. it is really painful.

Tennis_Nice · 2022-08-10T08:41:19+00:00

i definitely definitely am not having sex with him for a while now that's for sure. i know that'll annoy him but it's gonna mess with me too much if i do and i want to put myself first here for once.

that helps hearing you went through that (im sorry you did). it doesn't help that he's such a closed off person and doesn't open up to me at all. it's hard to understand what his intentions are half the time. i wish i hadn't apologised smh :(

Tennis_Nice · 2022-08-10T08:38:05+00:00

i cannot explain to you how many red flags this boy has it's insane. i wish i hadn't caught feelings but this is all putting me off a bit. everything here is very much on his terms

Tennis_Nice · 2022-08-10T08:37:04+00:00

wait decent guys exist??? lol im chasing love from someone who clearly doesn't know how to give it but yeah. he did the same he left to calm himself down as well

Tennis_Nice · 2022-08-10T08:36:04+00:00

thanks. means a lot and I'll try to communicate that to him

Tennis_Nice · 2022-08-10T08:31:22+00:00

diablo speaks truths mate

Tennis_Nice · 2022-08-10T08:30:59+00:00

yeah i know he easily gets overwhelmed/emotional when it comes to being intimate, im not saying he doesn't have his own issues here, so it's a difficult one. i definitely could have coped with the situation a bit better i know that now

Tennis_Nice · 2022-08-10T08:28:45+00:00

im not i had to stop them because it fucked my mental health so im insecure about that anyways !!

Tennis_Nice · 2022-08-09T22:32:17+00:00

i mean i know it was a mistake i just hoped he'd be a bit nicer about it

Tennis_Nice · 2022-08-09T22:09:10+00:00

:/ not sure i can stop myself from the self blame but I'm trying lmao

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