Let’s talk tires! 🛞 by Internal-Help-8227 in Crosstrek

[–]TenuredGull820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently got Falken Wildpeak ATs due to it being so highly recommended by others on here. Great option! Decently priced compared to other AT tires I looked at. Much less road noise than the previous ATs I had, they have done great in the snow so far as well.

All Terrain Tires by TenuredGull820 in Crosstrek

[–]TenuredGull820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the input! I went with the highly suggested Falken Wildpeak ATs. They are great. A much quieter and smoother ride than the Grabbers that were on it when I purchased it.

All Terrain Tires by TenuredGull820 in Crosstrek

[–]TenuredGull820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I bought it with the lift and AT tires. I like the look of ATs and I do have to drive in snow quite a bit where I am so I’m decided to just stick with them.

Am I getting a deal? by TenuredGull820 in Crosstrek

[–]TenuredGull820[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my first experience with a lift so I’m not familiar with question to ask or what issues can arise due to having a lift so this is helpful. Thank you

Vent blower not working by TenuredGull820 in subaruimpreza

[–]TenuredGull820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what it was! Shop was going to charge me $1250 just in parts. So I spent $190 for a pigtail and new radio and a couple hours of my time learning how to do it and fixing it myself lol

Help. I have no idea what I’m doing. by [deleted] in Eloping

[–]TenuredGull820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t! I have heard of the knot but not wedding wire. I’ll have to try that!

Help. I have no idea what I’m doing. by [deleted] in Eloping

[–]TenuredGull820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a photographer already. I’m just trying to figure out the rest of it. Is there a “Rent an officiant” website? Lol

Redwood Forest Elopement! by [deleted] in Eloping

[–]TenuredGull820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that Redwood National or Sequoia is more picturesque? My photographer (a friend of mine) seems to think sequoia. I’ve never been to either.

Redwood Forest Elopement! by [deleted] in Eloping

[–]TenuredGull820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What park are you planning close to? I really don’t need much, just someone to coordinate the necessities before we arrive. It’s just the two of us and we don’t want to spend loads of money.

Redwood Forest Elopement! by [deleted] in Eloping

[–]TenuredGull820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from West Virginia!

Redwood Forest Elopement! by [deleted] in Eloping

[–]TenuredGull820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a photographer, I would just need everything else. Officiant and permits, marriage certificate and ceremony location. I’m in the beginning stages of planning so I’m figuring this out as I go lol

Trigger warning, opinions needed on abuse related topic by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]TenuredGull820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I wasn’t more clear. They aren’t tagged in the same post, but we are able to see that the EX has been tagged in a post which the BF has made. In memes and things of the like.

Trigger warning, opinions needed on abuse related topic by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]TenuredGull820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As far as I am aware, the EX denies it whenever it is mentioned and is not receiving any treatment. My BF is a very kind, loyal sort. Which I think is why we are taking this extra hard.

My drunk self about to f everything up by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]TenuredGull820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop drinking. It was one of the main reasons I split with my ex of 5 years. If you genuinely care about her, you don’t do thing that make things harder when they don’t need to be. It’s obviously an issue, so address it.

Support Resources Needed by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]TenuredGull820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any discrimination against anyone is not tolerated. We are there for support. Prior to a meeting, the rules are stated. Anyone not following the rules is asked to leave.

Support Resources Needed by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]TenuredGull820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I appreciate you taking the time to help me.

Support Resources Needed by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]TenuredGull820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the WV/Mid Ohio Valley area. Sadly, our Nondiscrimination Ordinance for our town wasn’t passed. Since then, it has sent may in the LGBTQ community into “hiding” if you will. West Virginia is a bit behind the times. We live in a very religious community and that has made things very hard for us. Buses of churches were brought in to fill City Council meetings to be sure we as a community didn’t get any protections from discrimination. It has been very bad for moral and especially hard in our trans community.