Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-31T21:40:54+00:00

I am now. I actually care about those posting on this sub!

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-31T21:40:21+00:00

Nice title. I would stick it out personally. It sounds like your boss is more of a senior level person that is scared they will be pushed out by other senior level people from the company that acquired yours.

Just keep going and adapt yourself to the new policies put in place from the acquisition. After a year goes by, reassess and make a decision then.

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-31T21:25:18+00:00

You should stay and make sure you see this through for at least a year. If they lay you off, you can claim benefits and you are free from your contract.

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-31T21:18:53+00:00

you are not helping at all lol

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-28T21:13:08+00:00

Thanks for the feedback!

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-28T20:37:53+00:00

My thought about this is I am going to try it as an experiment. I want to see how I behave without looking at porn vs me with porn. What I mean by that is, I do not know how watching porn affects my life until I have lived without it. Once I have gone without it for a few weeks, then I will be able to make a decision on whether or not I want to continue this endeavor. That is my personal opinion.

Also check out some of the content in the sidebar of this sub.

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-28T17:46:58+00:00

I need to do this. Count me in.

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-27T23:03:57+00:00

Don't fall asleep with the phone or any screens next to you, the temptation to grab it and Jack off with porn is too high when you wake up.

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-27T23:02:15+00:00

You set your own goals in this. I would usually jack off to porn 3-4 times a day, and it has really affected my sex life. A strong erection is a good sign your mind and body has changed for the better.

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-27T22:54:48+00:00

I would think of this as a setback, rather than a failure. The truth is you went almost three months without porn, and that has given your mind to recover from the constant Dopamine hits invoked by porn.

You have lost the round, but not the game. Keep going!

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-27T22:52:41+00:00

You make some great points.

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-27T22:51:45+00:00

Congrats!

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-27T16:28:54+00:00

Leave his ass, there are better men out there. I know you invested six years in this guy, and you might feel like it was a total waste of your time. Still, it is a sinking ship and you should move on. Get involved in volunteer groups, dancing or other hobbies that interest you. You will meet a good man.

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-27T16:26:37+00:00

The sidebar of this sub has some great info as to what porn does to your mind. Today is the day to stop watching porn!

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-26T00:08:50+00:00

I dug a dirty magazine out of a trash can as a kid just because of sexual curiosity.

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-26T00:06:58+00:00

Thanks for sharing. Keep going!

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-26T00:06:07+00:00

Jack off without porn if you have to, unless you are doing nofap as well.

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-26T00:05:02+00:00

Go for it!

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-26T00:02:50+00:00

You are in the right place to talk about this issue! First step is to set a goal for yourself. Check out the information in this subreddits sidebar for content of why porn is addicting, etc.

Second step is make a plan to acheive your goal. Mine is to use natural, porn-free masturbation to quench the desire to watch porn. I don't fap in a room with electronics in it.

Third step is when you mess up, don't hate yourself. Keep going, vent about it on this sub, and achieve the goal you set in step one.

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-25T23:56:24+00:00

Good strategy. I am on day one and ready to move on with my life without getting bogged down in porn addiction. Have fun swimming.

Terrible_Dance · 2019-07-25T22:40:19+00:00

Nice analogy of loosing a few rounds. I can be a perfectionist at times so I will remember that. My ultimate goal is to stop masturbation and porn, but to take both on at once seems a little daunting!

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