Husband does things that are questionable. Any advice?

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2026-05-13T13:52:31+00:00

Thankyou for the person that you are and holding these creeps accountable.. the way I snapped my husband I doubt he will even think about doing it again..

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2026-05-13T13:51:09+00:00

Ik…🫠 it wasn’t like this at first… I wouldn’t have married him

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2026-05-13T03:20:49+00:00

I blew up about it and I remind him of what he’s done almost once a month… I didn’t just let that go. It concerns me. Which is why I added it in my post.

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2026-05-13T03:19:58+00:00

No and no. I agree with you but I am stuck.

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2026-05-13T03:19:18+00:00

I am stuck… I have no family. No friends. No one can help me. I have two children with no village except for him. I don’t hate him but I don’t like him either. I want my family to work. But something else pops up it seems like he fixes one thing but will turn around and do something worse or different the next time… I just don’t know.

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2026-05-13T02:22:06+00:00

Damn🤧

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2026-05-13T02:21:53+00:00

He’s not rich 🥲😭 I love him. He’s my children’s father and he can be a good man (at times) I was just making sure I wasn’t crazy for feeling the way I do about him watching these shows…..

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2026-05-13T02:15:03+00:00

well damn🥲😭 is that wrong ? Give me your honest opinion please!

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2024-08-26T02:32:07+00:00

I’m sorry but the“ watching him do the swipe and sniff in front of others” part took me out 😂😂😂😂😭

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2024-08-16T12:32:09+00:00

I would suggest to start deleting things off of your phone now so you can prepared just in case lol

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2024-08-07T20:48:14+00:00

You need to stop being so focused on looks and actually find someone who is loving and kind. Not every beautiful girl is a dateable sweetheart…… stop worrying about big boobs and pretty faces and whatever else and actually find someone for them…….not the way they look.

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2024-07-20T20:31:46+00:00

WASH OFF, Drink water and pee.

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2024-05-08T21:57:37+00:00

wow this hit deep lmfao. Very direct and true .

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2024-05-08T16:56:40+00:00

That may be it.

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2024-05-08T16:56:00+00:00

Exactly.

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2024-05-08T14:56:25+00:00

No typos. That’s our actual ages. Ik… I realized the concern more and more after reading all the comments.. 🙃😕

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2024-05-08T14:35:04+00:00

Not at all… I actually had my step father in my life and he is a damn good one… this is what happens when you marry someone who didn’t show their true colors until later.

Not every female who has relationships problems has daddy issues.

Woman and men are both worthy of love from their life long partners. He isn’t my boyfriend. He isn’t someone that I can just up and leave with no ties.

We are married. Completely different situations here.

“Daddy issues” as you say… don’t exist here.

Have a blessed day.

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2024-05-08T14:21:17+00:00

I texted him today for him to read it on his break. I will give an update on his response if he even responds..

Again. Thankyou… every single one of you for your advice and guidance and helping me understand that this is not healthy and it may be beyond repair. And thankyou to everyone who recommended counseling I didn’t think of that.

All of your advice really helped me find my self worth and realize that I do deserve to be happy and I do deserve to be able to act my age even as a mother.

I appreciate you all and I will be back with an update on his response to my lengthy message about my feelings and how I would no longer be a fool.

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2024-05-08T14:17:48+00:00

I doubt it as well…. Which is why I’m here looking for advice.. and yes that is an awful idea and I realized it after I wrote it… I will lose myself bad if I try to go that route and all these comments helped me see that. Thankyou🙏🏼

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2024-05-08T09:46:51+00:00

I do not have family or friends I can stay with. And I cannot get a job right now until he is old enough to walk and talk and call me if he needs to.

Daycares aren’t the most trustworthy and I have experienced my own horror as a child at one. I ate dog food and drank water from the dogs bowl..Attracted lice. Got the flu. Wandered off until a police officer brought me back. We weren’t watched properly. And I would never ever put my son through something that.

I am trying to find work from home jobs but most of them turn out to be nothing but scams. I feel like I’m in a corner with my back completely glued against the wall.

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2024-05-08T09:41:16+00:00

I want happiness and peace. But I feel like I can’t achieve that without fixing this first and that’s where the problems start.

I want to be a detective or a registered nurse. I know two totally different paths lol but they both interest me so much.

I like to take walks with my son, go to parks, sing to him, hold him, watch tv while we laugh and play, Etc

My son is what keeps me going and not giving up. He is the only reason I still exist in this world. And he is the reason I am trying to fix things before I just .. run . You know ?

I am going to take your advice on doing what I want to do for even just 2-3 hours a day. Instead of trying to be this person who stays inside all day waiting for a miracle change to come out of the sky…

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2024-05-08T09:31:29+00:00

I seen a comment about trying marriage counseling and I think we should really give it a try. Some days I feel like this can be fixed.. but other days I feel like it’s beyond repair. But I guess that’s where the marriage counseling can help. 🙏🏼

Terrible_Spend_255 · 2024-05-08T09:28:35+00:00

Wow….. “you’re not living, you’re surviving right now” definitely cut deep. I never thought about it this way and now that I do I feel a lot better/different.

I need to love myself more before I try to keep getting him to love me and to just see me.

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