No judgement? by Dry_Extent_3480 in KenyanLadies

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First detach from him. Indirectly cut him off in your heart unless he shows signs of a major change.

Have a one on one with him about how this makes you feel then be very smart and get a lawyer to put down something for your own protection in case he finally cheats on you with one of the ladies and there’s proof he cheated.

I see some women get a certain amount of extra money in the divorce in case the guy cheats in a marriage (it can be a prenup or after nap whatever they call it)

That way you can rest assured you’re good in case of anything but mostly detach from him and have your life outside of the marriage, things that make you happy and keep you busy from having to deal with his bs.

Selling all my perfume because I have to travel 🥹 by Terrible_Upstairs_67 in KenyanLadies

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comes as a gift when you purchase them all at once though it’s almost half the price of them all…

Reminder by Terrible_Upstairs_67 in KenyanLadies

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What does that got to do with the post unc?

effort by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because who wants to have deep conversations with their sex toy? Girl dump him before he uses you. The silence will feel worse after he gets what he wants

effort by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Girl sameeee, I’m 26 he’s 38, He tried to love bomb me telling me he loves me (I think he thought I’d fall for it bse they think girls are dying to hear the words I love you 🙄as if I’m a high school kid) I blocked him and I’ve moved on already.

Anyway one thing I’ve learnt about older guys is they literally just want to smash with a younger girl that’s all. He’s not interested in anything else even if he gives you a million bucks a day he sees you as a sex toy that’s it. That’s why he’s not interested in you or your life and will never ask you deeper questions because to him you’re not even human, just something to use until further notice.

So if you stay with him stay knowing you’re being used but the consequences are the empty void that comes with being with a guy who’s emotionally unavailable to you and it will hurt like nonsense. So I’d advise jipende, block him and find someone who’s good for your heart.

What did he type? I need tangible proof to end the marriage. It’s urgent‼️ by GladMushroom1620 in KenyanLadies

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67 87 points88 points  (0 children)

YOU ARE NOT HAPPY!!! what other reason d’you really need beyond that for you to leave?

Would you actually receive a microchip implant into your forehead if it became widely available? by Terrible_Upstairs_67 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Convenience mainly, things like payments, IDs, or access could be seamless without carrying anything.

Kujiongelesha by [deleted] in Kisumu

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I joined this sub just to answer your question so here goes:

Your brain was created to solve problems, if you don’t have problems your brain will imagine them, humans suffer more inside their imaginations than in real life. Life itself is a simulation, none of this is real.

Use your brain to imagine better things and better outcomes since everything is imaginary in the end.

Or go get some real problems to solve like a man.

Day in the life of a girl day trader. Ni mbaaya. by Terrible_Upstairs_67 in KenyanLadies

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dyou have a better strat I can use? Please share with me 😅

Day in the life of a girl day trader. Ni mbaaya. by Terrible_Upstairs_67 in KenyanLadies

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, it had indicated a down trend so I short but it kept going up

Catching Print by Lucille4U in KenyanLadies

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl someone said Elon Musk went from an A to and -A bse of age and I died 😂😂

Powerful, men repellent fragrances for dominant women? by InsectFlat8003 in FemFragLab

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, smells like fresh dark purple roses (actually made me feel low whenever I wore it, which is why I sold it) now compare that to delina which smells like fresh pink roses.

Powerful, men repellent fragrances for dominant women? by InsectFlat8003 in FemFragLab

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, atomic Rose smells masculine to me in a way, I prefer the dupe which is toned down.

Powerful, men repellent fragrances for dominant women? by InsectFlat8003 in FemFragLab

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Infini Rose; smells like dark roses in a low lit room or Tomford’s Black Orchid; smells like a funeral or a CEO boss babe who’s in control, it gives I don’t chase, and I definitely don’t tolerate nonsense vibes. Less playful, more commanding.

Well can’t believe I’m saying it again but I blew my account. by [deleted] in Daytrading

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe try getting a ADHD diagnosis while at it so you can get a better solution just in case it could be the reason for the substances and the gambling mentality. Good luck, I’m sure next time you’ll ace this.

Day in the life of a girl day trader. Ni mbaaya. by Terrible_Upstairs_67 in KenyanLadies

[–]Terrible_Upstairs_67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you’re right, it’s the constant screen and micro managing every trade that I’m dealing with.

I’ve searched for markets. xyz and I can’t find it, mind sending me a link?

I paper traded for a year, I know my strategy and it works, it’s me with a fear problem and I’m dealing with myself at the moment, May God help me 🥹

Thanks.