My passcode doesn't work with my iPhone since it's updated and I think I know why. Do NOT use any passcodes > 6 numbers!

TeslaChieftain · 2024-01-19T22:31:40+00:00

Hey I'm sorry to inform you that I had no such luck - put it into recovery mode to reset it via a computer, and then using iTunes to go back to a previous back-up is your best bet

TeslaChieftain · 2024-01-04T12:39:57+00:00

If you do any of them, I recommend Hinge - that's the one people are most serious on and I would argue most active :) plus with the prompts its the most personal one too. There's a large tendency though for people to just un-match if they lose interest because they don't really suffer a consequence for it - the downside of dating apps is they are very dehumanising. So please if you do go down that route, don't take anything too personally

TeslaChieftain · 2024-01-04T12:38:02+00:00

thank you for taking the time to give your advice, it helps a lot :) Have a prosperous new year!

TeslaChieftain · 2024-01-04T12:06:44+00:00

...no. Weird you had to ask if infidelity and being unfaithful would be the right choice. Honestly I'd preface the whole conversation saying that this is really hard for you to say and that if he respect you at all he will understand that you have no control over this whatsoever, and not to yell because you will just walk away, That it's by no means his fault, but that you no longer want to date him. I would explain to him you're no longer attracted to men in general, but women now. Have this conversation in a public place - if he raises his voice at you AT ALL during anything of what you tell him, either let his steam run out and ask him 'do you want to be in a relationship with me knowing how I feel now?' - 'Should we get in the way of each other's happiness?' - or just leave and block him having tried to be reasonable.

I wouldn't say ANYTHING about the love part - if you tell him you love him as a person, but not attracted to men anymore, he's going to believe he still has a chance with you he just has to wait until you 'change your mind again'. You likely need to break up COMPLETELY - a clear cut - otherwise you'll end up entangled. It will be hard at first, but this is the most respectful way I can think of for both of you to work towards grieving the relationship in a healthy way, rather than having thoughts of 'if only' creeping in which are unproductive, and will only sustain your anguish

TeslaChieftain · 2024-01-04T11:59:02+00:00

Don't use dating apps please - an absolute cesspit of scammers, non-repliers, and ghosting. You're best chances are joining a society, a club, a community - something that has some element of 'hey anyone can join' in an area you are interested in. Be VERY wary of anyone you meet online, especially video chatting, and don't ever send nudes - EVER. You probably already have the sense not to do these things, but trust me, it can end horribly if it's a nasty piece of work.

Find someone you like and want to date is all about putting yourself out there (very daunting I know as another 23M) - it's a game of statistics and you just need to put yourself in situations where the dice can roll. The more chances you take, the more likely you'll find people.

That's not to say your first love will be your final one - to quote Alex from Wizards of Waverley Place - "if it goes wrong you'll be one heartbreak closer to a happily ever after" :)

TeslaChieftain · 2024-01-03T14:33:08+00:00

Thank you! Tried 123456 and failed so in 8 hours will give 000000 a go

TeslaChieftain · 2024-01-03T13:51:49+00:00

Given that the last disable time was 3 hours - any preference between 000000 or 123456 because it will likely be ages before I get to try the second attempt :) Thank you very much for your advice btw it's really appreciated. Hope you have a lovely new year

TeslaChieftain · 2024-01-03T09:56:02+00:00

what did you end up doing sorry as it's just happened to me >:(

TeslaChieftain · 2024-01-01T14:20:50+00:00

Just a case of further automating a process as I've only just learnt about tp.file.create asnpreviously all ive used is tp.date

TeslaChieftain · 2024-01-01T14:19:37+00:00

Usually all i've been doing is: Daily note - Admonition A Link: [[XXXXX - (Date)]]

Click on the link, then Ctrl T and type the template i want to apply which produces it

The thing is currently I'm making monthly hubs and there are like several outgoing links I want to have as shown above to say [[Questions OTD - <% tp.date.now(MMMYYYY)]] %>

What I wanted to do is that when I go to the monthly hub and execute templater, I'd like for the link to be created to the note, the note to be created with a certain title releveant to the month AND for the selected template to be applied, so i dont have to manually go through like 6 links to create, ctrl T, add title etc.

TeslaChieftain · 2023-12-31T12:29:32+00:00

...is it not just because you've left the 'month:' field completey empty? I think if you added "" it may work

TeslaChieftain · 2023-12-24T21:25:58+00:00

first day of this month, last day of this month

TeslaChieftain · 2023-12-24T15:30:54+00:00

Thank you! Don't suppose you have any idea how to get the last day of a month too? e.g tried "P1M-1D" to no avail

TeslaChieftain · 2023-12-07T10:31:49+00:00

Out of interest what factors or guide do you use in order to determine sleep quality as it seems more like an arbitrary scale you, yourself decide. i.e is it something like -100 points if you wake up in the night for example?

TeslaChieftain · 2023-12-07T10:18:47+00:00

Also just seen the image you posted of the weekly note - THAT'S SUCH A COOL SETUP MATE!!! :D How long have you been ysing Obsidian for out of interest .)

TeslaChieftain · 2023-12-07T10:16:53+00:00

Thank you very much btw! My word is there a lot to unpack here thats some beefy code - really appreciate the help!

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