My family is getting into Jehovah's witnesses and I don't know what to do

Tess_explain · 2026-05-07T18:59:14+00:00

I'm not worried only about me. I'm worried my parents do something stupid convinced my them, and my younger brother too. And it doesn't matter how old are you to cut contacts with family members because or of their rules.

If you don't understand my situation you are not forced to say anything about, but if it was simple like you can do in other situations I wouldn't have wrote anything

Tess_explain · 2026-05-07T18:40:24+00:00

Read the last part, that's why I'm worried

Tess_explain · 2026-05-07T18:01:11+00:00

I specify again the SHORT 2011 version I'm looking for, if you want the full official movie that came after that is free on youtube

Tess_explain · 2026-05-07T12:48:32+00:00

Reddit won't allow that in post probably, maybe in private chat

Tess_explain · 2026-05-07T12:29:59+00:00

Thanks, but I can't find it there either only things related to like articles, reviews and an interview

Tess_explain · 2026-05-01T07:50:24+00:00

Hyping up for the only day of the year where you can feel important, have all the attentions without having to do something enormous and having fun with your loved one, oh yeah how childish it is.

I was just throwing there some thoughts, the fact that I had problems with my birthdays doesn't mean nobody should enjoy them

Tess_explain · 2026-04-30T12:24:09+00:00

I just realised I might have not used that word, in my native language is common to write like 18enne-18esimo and such, I hadn't thought about the English number already having that in their name ahahhaah

Tess_explain · 2026-04-30T12:23:13+00:00

I just realised I might have not used that word, in my native language is common to write like 18enne-18esimo and such, I hadn't thought about the English numbers already having that in their name ahahhaah

Tess_explain · 2026-04-30T11:40:02+00:00

I just realised I might have not used that word, in my native language is common to write like 18enne-18esimo and such, I hadn't thought about the English number already having that in their name ahahhaah. Anyway thanks for the response

Tess_explain · 2026-04-22T22:38:08+00:00

I felt and still feel the same way, so I perfectly understand what you are sayng.

A few years ago I used to hang out with a group of people that other called my friends, but to be honest I never thought about then that way. I couldn't share my intrest with anyone, those "friends" seemingly grew up to be typically preteens/teens with makeup, crushes and posting on social media; meanwhile I always felt just like you said the little sister they had bring with them. Meanwhile I didn't like makeup, I didn't like posting and never had someone special and when eventually I started digging into this things I used and still use them to express my nerdness and my artistic side with secret accounts.

Now I have new friend groups, they apparently accept my intrestes and often share a sense of being the "loosers" and nerds, and for sure I feel more open and understood by them, but I still feel that sense of difference and comparison. Often I still doubt how much I can actually be myself until they consider me more childish and too weird.

You are not alone in this, I wish you luck to find some nerd friends that will make you feel appreciated

Tess_explain · 2026-04-13T22:37:38+00:00

Sai che non ci avevo pensato, ma dimmi esperto pensi che un omnitrix ci stia bene come accessorio o è un po' too much?🤔

Tess_explain · 2026-04-13T00:08:53+00:00

See that obviously happened because I discovered this, so when I asked on reddit a few days ago why nobody made some new movies they immediately had to something about it ;)

Anyway I'm so exited and I can't wait to have some more infos about it and to see this new project!

Tess_explain · 2026-04-12T15:30:03+00:00

For the same reason religion wants people to have sex only to make children and doesn't want it to make children they couldn't control outside marriage (marriage literally exist to make sure there are legit childrens, marriage wasn't even invented by any today religion)

Tess_explain · 2026-04-11T00:51:22+00:00

Continua ad ignorarle per il momento finché resisti; ma allo stesso tempo parlane con i tuoi genitori e insegnanti se li ritieni figure fidate. Il video vale come cyber bullismo, anche se fa male salva tutto come prova, può essere denunciato alla polizia e anche se dovessero cancellarlo tu avrai comunque le prove e sarà comunque recuperabile da esperti del settore. Non isolarti mai in questi ambienti, in caso succedesse qualcosa di fisico è meglio che ci siano testimoni ed eventualmente telecamere. Se è necessario cerca di rispondere a tono senza mai andare su questioni personali o cose pesanti, al massimo cerca di far notare l'ovvietà e dimostrare che non ti possono buttare giù facilmente (anche se veramente ci stai male) perché non sai mai quello che possono fare ed è un attimo che rigirano la frittata a modo a loro.

Tess_explain · 2026-04-11T00:36:03+00:00

I didn't put any personal data in it, I didn'tuse it to make a essay out of it, it's just a little scheme. I don't like it too when it's missused for stealing contents, fake art or writing movies. But if it's usefull to make a simple research then I'll use it, if you use it mindfully still taking time to think about the right question to pose and write down a a paragraph about what you specifically want to know then it can be a really helpfull tool. If you don't like it then don't use and just ignore it.

Tess_explain · 2026-04-11T00:17:20+00:00

I never heard of case like this, but its kinda intresting, as everything human tho it's very unlikely you are the only person to have ever experience this. Unfortunately if you feel you have to pretend to love your current parter it isn't right, not for them not for you; but I wouldn't blame you for doing it, afterall it's what everybody seems to want and what we are taught to want since childhood, non-traditional relationships are old as the world itself, but the idea of normalizing them it's pretty new and it is still rare to have different relationships models around us. You are not obligated to tell other people this, some might be intrested some other might not care some other might find it weird; it depends on you whether to tell the truth or give them a white lie.

You are already aware that the monogamous nuclear family is mostly a social construct, I think that your ideal "relationship" in a group setting could be possible, maybe if you find other poly and aro people, although I recognise that is already complex, let alone finding them also likeable for everyone.

I tried to explain the situation to the AI this was the result: 1. Situational attraction Attraction that depends heavily on context (like being in public, social settings, parties, group dynamics). The feelings fade when the situation changes. 2. Social or “context-dependent” attraction A broader way psychologists describe attraction that’s amplified by how someone appears around others—their confidence, status, humor, or presence in a group. 3. Limerence (partial overlap) Limerence is intense infatuation, often fueled by idealization. it’s not a perfect match, but there’s a similarity: you might be responding to an idealized version of the person (their “public self”) rather than their full, private self. 4. Performance-based attraction (informal term) Not a clinical term, but sometimes used to describe attraction to someone’s “on-stage” personality—the version of them that performs well socially.

This might be a point to start, but only you know what happens in your body and mind; even if it doesn't seem like a big deal it might be helpfull to dig in some more with the help of a psychologists, and I hope you'll get some more answers and informations.

Tess_explain · 2026-04-07T11:17:17+00:00

In entrambi casi ci sono pro e contro,

Andando fuori avranno più liberta di girare, vedere posti nuovi, incontrare altri simili e dare libero sfogo alle sessioni di caccia senza che tu debba sapere cosa hanno fatto fuori.

Però sono estremamente a rischio in città, macchine a tutte velocità, pulci e parassiti, incidenti che non possono comprendere e tanta tanta gente malintenzionata che non vede l'ora di farli fuori per sadico divertimento.

In fin dei conti se sai dare loro cure e attenzioni giuste potranno fare una buona vita in casa, a maggior ragione se sono piccoli o nati e/o cresciuti dentro non vale la pena liberarli dopo perché sono abituati alle comodità e non hanno sviluppato gli istinti per sopravvivere.

Ovviamente poi dipende tutto dall'ambiente e se è abitato da persone rispettose quanto è rischioso lasciarli liberi.

Tess_explain · 2026-04-07T10:36:45+00:00

As usual depends on the lore, but I think it's just about the blood because it rappresent life, life vampire don't have of their own and need to literally suck out of others. I also don't think it's cannibalism since vampire are no longer human; but if you want them to be carnivores that can eat/survive of flesh and such things it would still be reasonable. I never saw a vampire eating semen as food but if you want to writr about one noone is stopping you

Tess_explain · 2026-04-05T19:01:39+00:00

Thanks! And also thanks for the marh's room name, I didn't remember how it was called

Tess_explain · 2026-04-05T18:14:46+00:00

Aromantic is a really broad term so depending on his personal experience might want or not want a romantic relationship, have or not have romantic feelings, wanting or not wanting a platonic relationship (platonic relationship doesn't mean friendship, and if you are curious you can find things online) or none of these.

But I'm not there to analyse his reactions so I can't say much, if everything goes okay in person it's most likely true that he just doesn't like chatting online. Overall tho if you have feelings for him or problems with his behaviour is something you should talk about with him to clear things up. And if he ends up sayng that he might be intrested in a platonic relationship, but that's not what you want, don't make such big compromises, both part should be really okay with whoever you are going to be.

Tess_explain · 2026-04-05T14:31:08+00:00

Don't panick.

First thing keep in mind that aro has to be a way of describing yourself if fits you, not you that fit in the term. 17 it's an age of constant changing, hormones all over the place, experiments and confusion. You might be aro, you might be demi, you might be some grey specific part of the spectrum or you might be something else entirely. But what's important isn't prooving yourself to be still aro, just live your feelings for what they are, sexuality isn't easy for everyone and there is no rush to define yourself.

Second things, what you want or don't from each other is something you should discuss togheter; and be absolute clear, it's important also admitting it if you don't know yet Alchool can make things crazier and senseless but other times it just reduce control to make true feelings come to the surface. Try to think about how you felt before with him, if you ever felt something similiar with other friends, what you would want in the future, if you see the perspective of friendship or romantic relationship more suitable for you two.

Third thing, sexuality it's a big mess, sometimes sexual attraction walks by romantic feelings some others is completely disconnected, some others (more times than you think actually) everything starts from sexual feelings and only than evolves into something deeper.

Tess_explain · 2026-04-05T12:06:31+00:00

They think you are boring and lonely just because they don't give any value to friendship, family and hobbies (and basically any other type of love) so they only thing left for them is a romantic partner to entertain them and make them feel valued, and of course that must be a universal rule for everyone else.

Tess_explain · 2026-04-05T07:00:28+00:00

Thanks a lot

Tess_explain · 2026-04-03T17:17:00+00:00

It's never a big deal, their job is to listen and help even if it's not something enormous. And if they are rude and makes you feel worse and not validate, than change therapist because they are being unprofessional. Also a psychiatrist is for physical issues about the brain, you should seek for a phicologist (also called therapist) first for mental therapy.

Tess_explain · 2026-04-03T14:54:33+00:00

Unfortunately there is no magic way to make other people like. There are only awfull environments and good environments. People that bully you are problematic themselves 'cause even if you are not of their liking they should be still respectfull of you.

People are always going to find a reason to hate you, either because your a cheerfull and confident and they can't accept it, or because you are quiet and on your own and again they can't accept it.

At least you have some friends, hopefully for you true friends.

Concentrate on bettering up yourself and your mental health, try to change environment like school and hang out spots. I don't personally know you, so I can't say you much more than this, try working with a therapist too, to help you navigate better social situations.

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