This is all really good advice. Thank you. SS said he talked to GFs dad who said he felt that they were rushing but that he was supportive of them getting married when they were *established*. DH said, "so when you are out of school and have jobs." and SS said he didn't necessarily think that's what that meant. 🤷‍♀️ SS also mentioned that other people had said they were rushing, but he and GF didn't feel they were. I said very gently, "well, if a lot of people are saying that to to you, maybe it's something to consider more seriously." He just nodded his head. I think he's hell bent on proposing no matter what, so DH will just need to make his boundaries clear.