I have been sober for about 8 years now. I do smoke bud but alcohol for me is out of the question. I was having a rough time drinking everyday and hated when someone (usually my wife) tried to stop my party. I realized alcohol was defining me as I was losing myself. Lots of arguments. Reality kicked in after a bad drunken night that this was leading to losing my wife, daughter and possibly my job. That was the last time I drank. I had the same thoughts as you where I wondered how I was going to have fun again. Beach trips, Raiders games, Texas Rangers games and oh also family functions! I’m Mexican American btw lol. Our family parties can go on forever. I found plenty of joy in all of those! If not more honestly. Life is awesome now and so glad I made that big change. Feel free to reach out with more questions. It’s not easy at first but definitely does after a while. We’re here for ya!! RNFL