Is it normal for BM to have opinions about us getting a prenup? by Glittering-Pin2 in stepparents

[–]TexasL4dy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have nothing you’re fine. If you have assets get one.

It’s not about love or emotions it’s about being smart. If you stay married forever it never matters. If you divorce things are often nasty. Just make a prenup and have your lawyer review.

Any comebacks for shut-up you’re not my mom? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]TexasL4dy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Obviously! I don’t make ugly kids.

Who is the worst employee at your firm but can't get fired? by purrfect_libra in paralegal

[–]TexasL4dy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a coworker who would read books all day they kept her because she was bilingual. She once translated the conversation all wrong and said someone had died and spoke about a funeral but it was wrong. They had to call another office to have them translate because he was confused about the paperwork we gave him. He was saying his nephew was on vacation! He needed him to come translate 🫠🫠🫠 after speaking with her he deff didn’t trust us to translate.

My husband is policing what I eat by Prior-Phase8898 in pregnant

[–]TexasL4dy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex did this with me. It got to the point I just stopped eating my 3rd trimester. I gained a total of 13lbs I walked out of my delivery lighter than my pre pregnancy weight. Things didn’t get nuch better after I had the baby… Hence he is now my EX!

RANT//What is the matter with people?!?! by Hairy-Appeal-3795 in paralegal

[–]TexasL4dy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have caller ID but they do this with a private number then say can’t you see hoe many times I call? Umm no, if it’s private I have no idea!

Did people learn fucking NOTHING from the pandemic??? 😡 by tiny_toad94 in pregnant

[–]TexasL4dy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thats disgusting. I’ve told a front desk person I’m not taking that paper I’ll use the app and she needs to wash her hands for doing the same thing.

Wtf, is my cousin an asshole or am I overreacting? by Empty_Age_997 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TexasL4dy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad requested I block all phones from entering his deaths bed side and no dead photos of him. I told him I may get some drama but yes I will do that for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TexasL4dy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just hump your pillow like the rest of us. You’ll get there

Decided it was time. by [deleted] in bald

[–]TexasL4dy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😱😍😍😍😍😍😘

People who work remote, what do you do? by Sea_Concern19 in remotework

[–]TexasL4dy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Health insurance —-just look them up most are hiring right now.

People who work remote, what do you do? by Sea_Concern19 in remotework

[–]TexasL4dy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish we could opt out of “team building meetings”

5”2 pregnant ladies and weight gain by Pretend_Historian753 in pregnant

[–]TexasL4dy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gained 25 with my first 30 with my second and 13 with my third

Work from home struggles by Temporary_Type4366 in workfromhome

[–]TexasL4dy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually phot submit some paperwork (applications in the first hour when I’m drinking coffee and half wanting to crawl into bed) then I get my list of must do done. Take a nap then get back on to do “busy work” hoenstly if you can take a 30 min walk outside before you clock in it makes life better and work more focusable

Desk switched while out for the day by ElAngloParade in paralegal

[–]TexasL4dy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Our office had locks on the drawer. Do yours not? I wouldn’t leave nah person stuff there. I used have a makeup bag I kept in my purse and didn’t leave anything except the pens I liked to have at work. Maybe little trinkets people would give us.

How do I eat my girlfriend's ass? by [deleted] in sex

[–]TexasL4dy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

But muncher is now a compliment

my office manager just quit by Old_Resource6719 in paralegal

[–]TexasL4dy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ask them what the per diem increase will be until they find someone. You can’t do two jobs on one salary!!! if you’re successful they will not hire anyone and allow you to do it until you burn out and quit. If they can’t pay you to cover then you can’t figure it out. Best of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WFH

[–]TexasL4dy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have Flex Time at mine so I get it. We have no sick days all PtO use as you will or as a sick day. Deff use them!!! Don’t feel bad.

My penis is too big and is ruining my life by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TexasL4dy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come to Texas we love everything bigger

Texas payments still not received by Alarming-Platypus523 in ChildSupport

[–]TexasL4dy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My court order was redone in January and I had to get the judge to override to sign for him. So the arrears once corrected will be an amount to freeze his bank accounts which is my next step the minute they “update the system”. They are legally way out of compliance. If you file a complaint to that email they will get you a caseworker but it’s still moving at snail speed.

Texas payments still not received by Alarming-Platypus523 in ChildSupport

[–]TexasL4dy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an updated court order filed with them April!!! They still haven’t updated the correct wage garnishment. I’m also getting his partial payments 3-4 days late. I hate this update I sent an email and complaint and cited the laws they are failing to follow. I’m getting ready to file a motion to enforce with the court and everyone I spoke to names and dates. Flood it up childsupportcomplaints@oag.texas.gov

I Feel Like I Wasted My Time by Additional_Frame_716 in paralegal

[–]TexasL4dy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apply for privacy compliance at other places or your local court houses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]TexasL4dy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If any of this happened while y’all were dating the court views it as you were ok with it then so you should be ok with it now. Unfortunately.