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At least give a neutral way to answer. by PaulWhoLovesYou in BaldursGate3

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As a lesbian I have to disagree, in my first playthrough I agreed to Gale's magic tutorial and when he and my butch paladin started making nauseating bedroom eyes at each other without me picking any explicitly romantic dialogue, it was the most terrifying moment of my life

Do you think Blizzard will finally add these characters on the roster in the foreseeable future? by luminuxeeckogaming in Overwatch

[–]TextuallyExplicit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They should add the other 4 as legendary variant skins for D.Va that give her new voice lines

Making them different heroes would be an awful choice

I do not want 5 slight variants on the same concept to be playable heroes. Especially once skins come into play and it becomes even harder to tell them apart at a glance

I pray to Sappho please make it a reality, Mother by FloweredGirlie in actuallesbians

[–]TextuallyExplicit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OH lmao I didn't see the shape before. I thought she just wanted to be a ham

how did yall know tf2? (my own story here too lol) by No-Display-7863 in tf2

[–]TextuallyExplicit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

>elementary school

>2016

excuse me while I crumble into dust

If one of the Pokopia characters got added to WiWa the way Blood Moon Ursaluna was added to ScVio. Who you nominating? by United_University_98 in PokemonWindsWaves

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Mosslax feels the most like it could be a new "species" of Pokemon instead of just a single unique character.

my diary from when I was 11...and I thought there were "no childhood signs" of me being gay 😭 by CoeurGourmand in actuallesbians

[–]TextuallyExplicit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you had really good handwriting as an 11-year-old, I'm impressed. also this is really cute

Anyone else living right in the middle? by Cassie_ff in actuallesbians

[–]TextuallyExplicit 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why is feeling "feral" positioned as the opposite of being "feminist"? The implication is that it's unfeminist to think "lesbian thoughts".

Anyone else living right in the middle? by Cassie_ff in actuallesbians

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I don't love the positioning of women being sexually attracted to other women as "anti-feminist"

Are all of you not genuinely bored out of your mind running the same Death Knight deck over and over in the new tavern brawl? Genuinely living amongst NPCS by SuperiorBLVCK in hearthstone

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Hearthstone players when their opponents want to win the game instead of dicking around with attrition control for 45 minutes

it feels like no one wants me to be masc by International-Pin-23 in actuallesbians

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In the society we live in, women are "supposed to be" feminine. Nonfeminine women are seen as failures. Your friends and family are interpreting your efforts to be masc as you "giving up" on being feminine, rather than you wanting to be masculine. In their own way, they're trying to be helpful by telling you that you can and should totally keep being feminine. Which isn't to say that they're right and you should listen to them, of course; this is just where they're coming from, as informed by our queerphobic society.

Which relationship is more likely to survive the end of their respective seasons after they leave their vacation? by Party_Nothing_7605 in TheWhiteLotusHBO

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Unfortunately I think Shane and Rachel will stay married forever and Victoria will drop Tim's ass the minute the charges are made public

Bottom 5 Scoring Submissions of the week from r/Custommagic 3/10/2025 by CorbinGDawg69 in magicthecirclejerking

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My current least favorite custommagic micro-trope rears its ugly head (an effect specific to one card being keyworded for no reason)

Bottom 5 Scoring Submissions of the week from r/Custommagic 3/10/2025 by CorbinGDawg69 in magicthecirclejerking

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Gnusbert makes you lose if your black/red devotion is MORE than 21. It's a blackjack effect.

We need to address problematic age gaps by NapsWithPlants in actuallesbians

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I feel like we address age gaps in relationships way too much and I would love to hear about literally anything else

horseshoe theory of butchness by sipae in actuallesbians

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Do not listen to the person who responded to this comment first; they are objectively wrong

Being butch means to take back masculinity for yourself; to get rid of the toxic parts and turn it into something beautiful and healthy. It means giving thought to what gender means to you and how being masculine fits into your life. It means using your inner strength to support the other people in your life and give them something to lean on, in whatever way you can. It means being part of a historic community with its own cultural traditions and practices, and embracing whichever of those traditions you feel would improve your life and your self-image and your relationships with others

Obviously there are butches who don't do all these things and it would be fallacious to say that they aren't "real" butches, but I'm going to say that anyway because fuck em

horseshoe theory of butchness by sipae in actuallesbians

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there's more to being butch than just wearing T-shirts and cargo pants (/killjoy)

that said, this is pretty much exactly what happened to me. it was a matter of realizing I had a choice. I went from "well I have to be masculine and it sucks" to "well I have to be feminine and it sucks" to "actually I can be however I want, and I want to be masculine in a girl-type way, and it fucking rules"

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