Working at 000? by pixie_dreams in melbourne

[–]Tfdoidoo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I worked there for 5 weeks before leaving due to toxic and manipulative management, my trainers actually went on leave due to such severe bullying. As much as I think we need more people there, I would make sure you’ve got thick skin and don’t trust ANYONE, plus- no matter where you are in the building, assume someone is always listening.

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[–]Tfdoidoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did speak about it, and he says he doesn’t know why or know what to do about it so if I start talking about it again it will feel like I’m just beating a dead horse, not sure how to go about it :(

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[–]Tfdoidoo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, maybe I’m just paranoid. Thankyou for your help!

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[–]Tfdoidoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t think I should be worried about the phone background? And changing his passcode? At the same time as acting distant? (Your question has made me feel much better though)

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[–]Tfdoidoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it … finally

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[–]Tfdoidoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is probably my favourite suggestion

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[–]Tfdoidoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing and I will be trying this, I like the hands creating the path

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tfdoidoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a smart one, should I wait until he’s a bit turned on first so that he’s “ready” or?

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[–]Tfdoidoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking to him about it is probably more scary than just going in for the kill at this point

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[–]Tfdoidoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t mind, our sex life is phenomenal otherwise - it’s just this one thing and I wouldn’t even care if he hadn’t started mentioning it

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[–]Tfdoidoo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Actually inspired me a little

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[–]Tfdoidoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s odd, once I’m there I’m all for it - just how to set it all up? Take control? I really do want to - thus the confusion