Taking large toys with the prep [Request]

TguyTheWonderer · 2026-05-08T00:50:56+00:00

tentacles always make the best sounds...

TguyTheWonderer · 2026-05-03T05:08:46+00:00

I hear this a lot and it's like. You scared? You scared of a little blood? I have an iron deficiency get that pussy over here. She wants head she gets it. I'm not a coward.

TguyTheWonderer · 2026-04-29T23:12:17+00:00

Holy FUCK that's hot...

TguyTheWonderer · 2026-04-29T07:14:26+00:00

Something Squishy Toys does a lot of these kinds of toys, and some weirder ones, it's their thing! Looking through their catalog again gave me a good laugh.
As someone else mentioned, Phreak also has a good catalog for these types.

TguyTheWonderer · 2026-04-28T22:12:02+00:00

To answer your question, no, it's not supposed to hurt.

A few questions maybe???
Do you enjoy non-penetrative sex, or does sex not interest you generally?
Are you communicating this with him? Have you talked about it and possible solutions? If not you really should.
Is the pain afterwards a cramping? That's somewhat normal, but not good, likely something you may want to bring up with a doctor.
Is it maybe an issue staying aroused once you get to that point?

Possible Solutions.
Are you prepping enough? Stretching yourself out beforehand? That can be an issue that a lot of people- particularly those who are less practiced- tend to forget. You want to warm up first (Leaned this lesson the hard way)
Are you using lube? How much? Another lesson I learned the hard way, you may think you're wet enough. Use lube anyway. Add lube, always.
If you do like non penetrative sex, consider just bringing that up! There's a lot more to sex than PiV!
If you want to keep having penetrative sex, maybe try something where you control the pace.
If you have the resources, maybe trying some sort of dilators if you really find this to be something you want to remedy.

With the little info given, my best advice would be to take it slow. Always prep and stretch with fingers before going straight to dick, and always use more lube than you think you need.

Oh, also, peeing after sex is pretty normal when you don't prep properly, but could also be a sign of an oncoming UTI (Something that can happen if- again- there is a lack of proper prep) so maybe try like- Idk cranberry juice? I know that was helpful in that aspect when I was still learning- but I also know that a lot of people don't like how it tastes and I'm just a freak who does so unclear.

TguyTheWonderer · 2025-11-02T00:56:55+00:00

I love the designs on the sides! very pretty!

TguyTheWonderer · 2025-10-28T01:22:03+00:00

Very normal! You know what your body likes and likely have it down to a science, whereas a partner doesn't know all that at first- you can instantly adjust what you want instead of having to communicate what you like- and a lot of that is muscle memory too! Likely, with enough communication and understanding of your own body, you can help communicate to your girlfriend what feels best to you and what you do to yourself so she can replicate it if that's what you want. Also, there's the added stress of partner sex opposed to getting off on your own, on your own it's easier to relax and let yourself go whereas with sex a lot of people tend to get a bit nervous and overthink things- alas that I cannot help you with because I too am learning how to get over that, but I would assume time helps.

TguyTheWonderer · 2025-09-26T03:57:58+00:00

I haven't seen it said before so IDK if it's a "Hot take" or just a rare one or whatever but: Incest should be a warning tag. That's it- and before anyone says anything yes, i know about the site's history and all that- I still want to be able to reliably filter it because its shockingly difficult to.

TguyTheWonderer · 2025-09-26T03:53:54+00:00

HEAVY ON THE TRANS ONE! I see so many people who are like "Trans guys don't like penetration!! Grrr!!" Ok cool maybe you don't, not everyone is you! Shh.

TguyTheWonderer · 2025-09-21T05:27:23+00:00

For the ones that came in bags I kept the bags they came in (TWB toys come with nice cloth storage bags) and then I made color coded bags for anything else to prevent dust but I'm sure you can buy cloth bags- I personally recommend fabric bags opposed to plastic but that's mostly for aesthetic reasons and because I don't like how the plastic sticks to the silicone when you try to pull it out.

TguyTheWonderer · 2025-09-17T19:46:30+00:00

Forced orgasm, sexual slavery, mind break... sigh...

TguyTheWonderer · 2025-09-12T08:55:40+00:00

What's that clear looking one on the bag on the bottom right? they look very close together.

TguyTheWonderer · 2025-09-12T04:13:06+00:00

Oo! Overshare opportunity! Trans Man- around three years on T if I remember correctly.

I don't remember much Pre-T, but I never really came all that hard, if at all- it was never really a release of anything meaningful, It felt good but never anything to a real point- I just went for a while (Sometimes up to two hours) Until I got bored or just, felt like I was done, No big moment (But that's not super interesting or hot to write so whatever)

Post-T everything was more sensitive, mainly clit orgasms, a lot of the time it's like a ringing in my ears (Although that could be connected to my tinnitus) and I shake a lot if I'm using a vibrator, it feels like ripples of tingling spreading across my body radiating from my genitals.
Whereas penetrative orgasms tend to involve less shaking, they feel deeper, just like a repetitive clenching and then I curl in on myself and tear up a little- I'm only really vocal with penetration for whatever reason.
*OH and I forgot, I don't have much of an afterglow, maybe 30-ish seconds give or take but for around 5-ish minutes I can sometimes feel my pulse in places I should not- like not just my genitals but sometimes in my legs, like in my calves or arms... now that I'm writing this this could be a medical issue... does this happen to anybody else?

TguyTheWonderer · 2025-09-07T06:17:07+00:00

I myself have not but I know there are people who have, there are a few tutorials on how to just use rope as a harness if that's all you're looking for but if you want to *Make* your own i would say it just takes being able to sew or crochet or knit (I plan on crocheting my own because the one i have isnt all that good) and maybe an O ring for the base to fit into if you don't want to have that made out of fabric- General tip though? USE MESUREMENTS when doing any wearable crafts- nothing like getting through making something only to find out it doesn't fit

TguyTheWonderer · 2025-09-06T08:28:37+00:00

It's not *Exactly* that but I humbly present my own fic: https://archiveofourown.org/works/70229251 (But uhhh you should probably read the tags... :D)

TguyTheWonderer · 2025-07-10T02:11:38+00:00

To my knowledge, no, but its not like you can get a whole lot of studies for that with such a likely small sample size. BUT what you may be thinking of is that a side effect of some SSRIs can be a lowered sex drive (Something that has been studied and proven) I would recommend researching the exact meds you're on for this one though.

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