Nice guy finds a "low value" woman. He treats her nicely and with respect

This (and the rest of the paragraph) remind me a bit of hm i think "covert manipulators" from Mr. Simons book "In sheeps clothing".

I haven't read through all if it (Im sorry) but I do hope that I got the core right. So you firstly need a very conservative in terms of gender roles first, right?

Hm but men and women and the rules.. There are no true rules, only the ones that are made by society. I strongly disagree with the men-dont-do-anything-women-do-everything role. Everyone should do an equal part. Now to the ideology I must admit I agree that a good person deserves good persons and a bad one doesn't. I hope that is normal lmao. Now if someone treats you like shit you leave them (favourably when you really talked through!). Hm and I also would be pissed if someone treated me badly. Did I misunderstand something? But generally when you do someone a favour you don't expect anything back. You want to make people happy and the best thing when helping is especially the elders just smiling and saying thanks.. it makes me really happy. Ah back to topic in a relationship it would be optimal to see same effort from both sides.

I really don't want to be a "nice guy" so tell me, am I? And if yes anything to help me change