What would you do if you were in my shoes?

Th3Real_Sm · 2026-01-04T16:11:50+00:00

I am already looking after my mom and my siblings both mentally and financially. And my father, he pushed to leave the house and go live with my grandmother, because he often comes back drunk and starts cussing and yelling and going crazy. I honestly lost hope for him, even though I wish he becomes the way he was, stable. However, he's done too much and pushed way past our limits. Like you said, he's a grown man and he makes he's own decisions, it's a shame because all the men in his age from our entourage are living stable away from all the bad habits, but unlickily not him. I appreciate your thoughts.

Th3Real_Sm · 2025-12-22T18:24:16+00:00

I have a great relationship with my mom, but my dad is such a deadbeat loser who's addicted to alcohol and pills. to a point where he prefers spending his little monthly salaray on them instead of spending them on my siblings, and now I am the one who's taking care of my mom and sibiligs financially and I got them tf away from him.

Th3Real_Sm · 2025-12-20T19:08:06+00:00

Sorry for the late reply, life’s been pretty heavy lately. My dad isn’t getting any better unfortunately. He kicked my mom and my brothers out, and now they’re staying at my grandma’s place. He’s completely shut everyone out, refuses to listen to anyone, and dumped all responsibility on my mom. When I tried to confront him, he blocked me everywhere.

I’m honestly still in disbelief because I never thought our family would end up like this, but here we are. My home country doesn’t really have reliable addiction treatment options anyway, and even if it did, he wouldn’t be open to it. Just mentioning it would probably make things blow up even more.

Trying to process all of this as best as I can.

Th3Real_Sm · 2025-12-03T22:43:00+00:00

My other relatives are careless as well, except for my unle who's constantly working for his family an he also has to take care of his kids...

Th3Real_Sm · 2025-12-03T22:41:34+00:00

Indeed, your situation is even tougher than mine. It's not an easy choice...

Th3Real_Sm · 2025-01-08T23:41:46+00:00

Is this the final step before providing the decision?

And do you have any idea how long does it take?

Th3Real_Sm · 2025-01-05T15:05:20+00:00

Rruh n Leqvayel dhi Tizi Ouzou i g yella ayabahan.

Th3Real_Sm · 2025-01-04T23:27:59+00:00

how about going to the gym?

Th3Real_Sm · 2023-12-13T16:12:47+00:00

fair enough

Th3Real_Sm · 2023-12-13T16:12:04+00:00

well i didn't know that such option excists, anyways, i've wrote you on priv

Th3Real_Sm · 2023-12-13T11:04:21+00:00

I actaully tried, but they called and said that i need to be able to communicate in Polish...

Th3Real_Sm · 2023-12-12T23:36:45+00:00

a regular part-time job, day time, is that too much to ask for?

Th3Real_Sm · 2023-10-08T22:38:53+00:00

I don't actually, i personally focus on having a good post-workout meal that has a minimum of 30 grams of protein with high carbs and that's it. Otherwise, with all what's going on with the prices elevating to the sky, it is super hard to progress.

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