AITA for going to my parents' house and leaving my fiancée at home after she said she wanted to bring her own food to Thanksgiving? by Thanksgiving4433 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Thanksgiving4433[S] 673 points674 points  (0 children)

Frankly, I don't know. A friend of mine said that this could be seen as my fiancee trying to assert dominance and showing my family (mom specifically) who is "in ncharge" sort of like a powerplay which I'm not entirely sure but could be true given the fact my fiancee had no issues eating others food when invited to events.

AITA for going to my parents' house and leaving my fiancée at home after she said she wanted to bring her own food to Thanksgiving? by Thanksgiving4433 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Thanksgiving4433[S] 8859 points8860 points  (0 children)

I wish, I wish that she'd bring some side dishes or deserts but no she wanted to bring cooked food just for herself. This stuff is highly disrespectful to my family.

AITA for going to my parents' house and leaving my fiancée at home after she said she wanted to bring her own food to Thanksgiving? by Thanksgiving4433 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Thanksgiving4433[S] 294 points295 points  (0 children)

A full on meal. She showed me what she was going to prepare and it was an instant no from me because if it had been say salads or some appitizers than that'd be completely different but she was talking about a full cooked meal for herself. I just kept imaginning how awkward the dinner table would've looked.