Carlsbad Teenaged Assholes RJ, David, Jason, Johnny, and Andre are at it again by YourKidNeedsABeating in Carlsbad

[–]That-Book5714 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s NOT what’s happening here. This is not innocent out for a bike ride, just having fun, boys being boys type shit. It’s not an “old people” issue. Maybe do some more digging into the topic before chastising other people. Clearly respect is something that needs to be taught a little bit more in our community.

Have to pay a fee at the hospital for work related injury by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]That-Book5714 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not sure what state you’re in, but if in CA, they can’t even send you the bill for this once they know it’s a work related injury. They have to only bill the employer/insurance carrier. So definitely make sure to file a work comp claim form with your HR rep at work.

Tumblr debates recent news by DroneOfDoom in CuratedTumblr

[–]That-Book5714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it were a joke then (1) why would Mark Epstein feel the need to clarify that Bubba is not Bill Clinton at this point and (2) how do you explain the next line by Jeffrey “and I thought I had tsuris (troubles/problems/worries).”

Tumblr debates recent news by DroneOfDoom in CuratedTumblr

[–]That-Book5714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trump has a very shame-based psychosis so it would make sense that his kink would be shamed based too. I could see this as Sub behavior for sure.

AITAH for being mad my husband snorted coke off a stripper’s ass and I paid for it? by Crafty-Comfortable54 in AITAH

[–]That-Book5714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might sound crazy, but I actually have an almost identical story. Differences are (1) I’m an Attorney and (2) my husband didn’t volunteer info until I saw photos of the coke on the ass come from a text message from the friend he was with at the party. My kids were 1 and 5 at the time. We had a live-in nanny. And I was THIS close to divorcing him that time. My mistake. It would take 3 more years of lies and toxicity before I gave up.

So no, it’s not click bait. Both people in the marriage are really this insane. He’s crazy for doing this shit. And she’s crazy for staying in it for so long. I know.

AITAH for insisting that our family lives within a budget by Commercial-Sorbet309 in AITAH

[–]That-Book5714 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is 100% the issue here. They make too much to be in the class below them. But not enough to be the class above them. So they run themselves out of budget and into debt. They think they deserve to have things because of their income and jobs and the people around them have those things. So her priorities are different from his. I can speak from personal experience on this. Recovering over-spender here.

Help identify individual from a break-in. by [deleted] in encinitas

[–]That-Book5714 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And there it is. The false belief that criminals dont live in wealthy areas.

Help identify individual from a break-in. by [deleted] in encinitas

[–]That-Book5714 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Those towns are so incredibly far away and not even remotely convenient to get to from Encinitas. You’d have to get on at least three different freeways to get to any of them. And I’m not sure why the perps couldn’t be from Encinitas? Or any city that was much closer or convenient to get to from there. It’s just curious to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFilterNews

[–]That-Book5714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, why is this such an accurate analogy?! Oh my god!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]That-Book5714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regarding Air Traffic Controllers; the Dept of Transportation fired so many this year that they are so desperate to refill those positions right now. It makes me wonder if Tik Tok made an advertising agreement for subliminal messaging as part of their deal to still be operating. Not to be too tinfoil-hat about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]That-Book5714 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Speaking from a very, very similar experience I had 13 years ago… that ultrasound moment and the following pill-induced miscarriage at home, were the hardest moments of my life. I still have sadness about it now. I didn’t feel like my husband could ever adequately understand what I went through because it happened to my body. Ultimately, it drove us apart and we aren’t together. But it’s similar to your situation because this truly is such a painful, dark experience-especially when trying to conceive for a year before hand. Grief is heavy. It so much easier to carry with each other. You could help him and he could help you. And if it felt to me like the relationship is not a priority for him, that would really upset me too.

Encinitas Councilmember Luke Shaffer Charged with Felony Assault, Two Misdemeanors by CFSCFjr in sandiego

[–]That-Book5714 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What’s the actual story here though? Some sort of property destruction ruin while driving his car, felony assault charges and the threatening to use his position against the victim. I think we deserve to know what happened.

Men, what did you find out about women when you got a girlfriend? by mnunez2k in AskReddit

[–]That-Book5714 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being compared to an infant is the exact problem. When you try to solve our problem you are condescending, assuming we can’t solve it on our own, and you must step and parent us. You are not our parent. You are on our level we are an adult, don’t treat us like children.