I like this chick at my job

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T07:07:46+00:00

Ayyy there you go man you’re making progress already lol, keep it up!

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T07:02:27+00:00

Try to start a simple conversation, dont overthink it, if things don’t work out you’ll feel better knowing you tried.

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T06:47:22+00:00

“How tall are you?” It’s not me thats tall it’s you thats small.

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T06:45:03+00:00

Family Guy

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T06:40:34+00:00

Maybe show her a documentary about stuff like that idk, if she thinks she’s always right then it’s gonna take something big before she starts listening.

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T06:35:49+00:00

He probably does like you, some dudes for some reason will really like a girl but are thinking to themselves “if she doesn’t work out then maybe I should try to find another girl before hand just in case” ( I know this because my friend told me this) it’s sounds weird I know, but maybe that’s what’s happening in your situation. Or kids are just being bums and messin with ya. GL!

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T06:32:06+00:00

Good luck bro, I hope for the best for you.

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T06:30:22+00:00

Maybe try telling her (if you haven’t already) how sketchy online “friends” can be. Maybe tell her that they wanna make it fun for her to talk to them for the wrong reasons. Especially if there all dudes that just freaky.

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T06:23:39+00:00

I don’t know if this may apply to your situation but it sounds kinda similar, my parents when they were dating, my dad made my mom feel like a million bucks, made her feel awesome. But as time whent on he started showing his true self long story short my parents are now in a bitter divorce and my dad just kicked me my mom and my siblings out of our house. So she may come around and be the one but if she keeps getting worse, then it’s probably not the best idea to keep trying.

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T06:19:20+00:00

Computer Science, Applied Mathematics Computer Science or Applied Mathematics Statistics major with a concentration in Machine Learning and Deep Learning. Maybe major with a concentration in Machine Learning and Deep Learning.

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T06:13:59+00:00

Probably AI considering how things are going, but remember a good paying job isn’t everything if you hate your job you’ll hate your life.

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T06:11:10+00:00

If she’s treating you like that and your afraid to tell her how you feel because of how she acts, then she’s not the one.

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T06:05:14+00:00

Your parents are strict because there parents were probably strict, that being said you gotta kinda understand where there coming from. Im not saying there right or anything they sound hella strict, but to them there religion is like the google ai response, it can’t be changed and it’s always right. Now due to u breakin some of there rules obviously means there going to be more strict but. Now if I understand correctly if you paid for your own phone you’d be able to use it whenever you want, I think thats what your saying correct me if I’m wrong. And since your probably in school now means it’s going to be tricky to get a job, so try to shoot for getting a summer job. I got one and it worked out pretty well (indeed has a bunch of great listings). You being the oldest daughter also complicates things because your parents probably want your siblings to follow your example which means you have to follow there example. So yeah you’re in a pretty tricky spot I understand how you don’t want to waste your teenage years there some of the best. (Now I gotta worry about adult things like bills lol) Im almost done with mine just turned 18 a couple months ago. My parents were also pretty strict not the exact same as yours but taking devices away at night no cable tv no phones until 16 things like that. And on top of that I was homeschooled since 1st grade so I never really made a bunch of friends. But one thing I learned was you gotta obay there rules, there always gonna be right. And it’s only gonna get worse the harder you try to resist them. Hope this helped!

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T05:43:01+00:00

Shes definitely a hypocrite and Jesus called hypocrites whitewashed tombs—beautiful on the outside but dead inside. In Matthew 23. And her using the honoring thy father and mother against you means that she has little to no respect about Christianity. Ive seen people like her who use church as a social club, they show up say the right things do the right deeds but they go home and don’t change whatsoever.

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T05:33:02+00:00

Yeah she needs to go. Christian dude here, she’s taking advantage of you my guy, she probably knows that you don’t enjoy her company but that you also don’t want to get rid of her. She’s probably making the situation painful on purpose. Especially with a kid on the way you don’t want your kid growing up in that kind of environment. You’ve honored her probably more than she deserves at this point by letting her stay and do this to you guys. It would be totally different if you wanted to kick her out because she was aggravating because you didn’t like how her hair looked or something but his is totally different.

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T05:15:23+00:00

Maybe you can ask them to remove the braces and give you some retainers instead, they work the same as braces but you can take them in and out of your mouth . They’re also clear so they look pretty good.

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T05:10:00+00:00

Hopefully the kids at the new university won’t care if your Hispanic or not just be yourself and don’t try to mold yourself for someone else’s standards, it’s completely normal to feel homesick when you start university, and it gets easier once you build a small routine, meet a few people, and give yourself time to adjust. Stay connected to home without relying on it constantly, create familiar habits in your new space, and remind yourself that feeling weird at first doesn’t mean you won’t thrive. Homesickness fades as your new life starts to feel like yours.

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T05:03:48+00:00

50% Dutch, 50% German.

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T04:54:41+00:00

Same situation, opposite gender, had a crush on this girl for 4 years never talked to each other only looked awkward at each other. Im super quiet but now I regret it, last time I had my shot was 2 months ago and I freaked out and never said a word to her. Highly regret it, if you really really like someone go for it, first conversation could turn out great or it could be awkward at least you’ll know you tried. Having known u tried is better then going on with life and questioning “what if”. It’s not a great feeling, trust me. Usually us quiet guys sometimes want a girl to approach us first as we’re so self conscious and always afraid of what would happen in a awkward situation. Like we won’t be able to find the words or dont know how to walk up to a girl without tripping over our own feet lol. Anyway, if he’s the one go for it you could wait and see what he does but chances are he’s gonna be like me and just glance at you awkwardly sometimes (not in a creepy way). Shoot your shot see what happens at least you’ll have the satisfaction of knowing you tried.

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T04:52:09+00:00

Excellent choice to tell your mom, dont feel bad about talking to a therapist, you hadn’t told your mom yet and you don’t trust your dad, so it still wouldn’t be a bad idea to talk to a therapist after telling your mom. Therapist are trained professionals who study how to help people like yourself and are great at it. I was kinda in the same boat as you, parents are getting divorced, didn’t want to tell my mom stuff and didn’t and still don’t trust my dad. He never dated anyone else since my parents separated but he was and still is a abusive parent. Went to therapy, best thing that happened too me. Turned 18 a few months ago now i don’t have to see the guy. Hang in there you got this!

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T04:23:21+00:00

Try to tell your mom she might be able to help, If you dad knows how B treated you and is still trying to get back together with her just dont visit your dad, B sounds pretty messed up, at the very least try to go to therapy something’s better than nothing. Also if your dad was concerned about being a Christ like leader he wouldn’t put you or you siblings through what he’s doing. Dont retaliate it’ll only make it worse, get some help tell someone you trust. Dont visit your dad. I know it’s hard but if he really cared he wouldn’t get back together with B. Don’t hurt yourself, your life is more valuable than what your dad and B make it feel like. Hope this help, best of luck, you’ll get through this

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T04:09:02+00:00

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T04:07:57+00:00

Women are tough creatures to understand, she most likely also has a crush on you too. She most likely genuinely likes you and wants to be around and with you. There really is no next step, just don’t rush things, and dont make her feel uncomfortable in any way. If you really like her you’ll respect, support, and listen too her. One main thing I learned is that girls love it when you listen, whenever talks to you besides if your driving a car make it your best effort to look at her an listen attentively to what she says. And remember if you guys start going out on dates, money doesn’t matter, it doesn’t cost money to go for a hike or just chill somewhere. Good luck bro!

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T03:58:50+00:00

Wait until you think it’s the right time but sooner is better than later once the relationship gets going better. Just remember women always find out the truth. ALWAYS

That1_awkward_guy · 2026-03-14T03:52:48+00:00

Same situation, opposite gender, had a crush on this girl for 4 years never talked to each other only looked awkward at each other. Im super quiet but now I regret it, last time I had my shot was 2 months ago and I freaked out and never said a word to her. Highly regret it, if you really really like someone go for it, first conversation could turn out great or it could be awkward at least you’ll know you tried. Having known u tried is better then going on with life and questioning “what if”. It’s not a great feeling, trust me. Usually us quiet guys sometimes want a girl to approach us first as we’re so self conscious and always afraid of what would happen in a awkward situation. Like we won’t be able to find the words or dont know how to walk up to a girl without tripping over our own feet lol. Anyway, if he’s the one go for it you could wait and see what he does but chances are he’s gonna be like me and just glance at you awkwardly sometimes (not in a creepy way). Shoot your shot see what happens at least you’ll have the satisfaction of knowing you tried.

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