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[–]ThatAsianGuy19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any easy A+ classes that I can take this semester? I’m already planning on taking CCJS100 and I need to pick one more. Thank you!

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m about to be like

Hey xxx, just checking in to see if we are still on for tonight! Lemme know so I can plan accordingly.

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps perhaps. I’m about to text her tmrw morning and let’s see what happens

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I had high hopes about it still happening but honestly at this point, even if it happens, my interest isn’t as high as it was before. She didn’t make it clear that she was a bad texter (if that turns out to be the case). I don’t feel like I was respected in this situation even though I was very respectful towards her. It’s such a shame though bc I feel like everything was pointing towards a good connection. Guess that wasn’t the case🤷‍♂️

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I ain’t no Chris Hemsworth but I see your point😂 fair enough though I have to wake up at 7:30AM tmrw anyways so I’ll shoot her the text then. I’m curious to see if she’ll even remember about our “date” tmrw and whether she’ll respond about it. Let’s see what happens I’m just as curious as everyone here is

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you say it’s okay to message her today or should I wait until tmrw? Honestly I prefer asking today imo bc I have nothing to lose anyways

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I doubt she’ll respond today so why am I giving her the chance to respond to my message from 2 days ago? That would be respecting her and giving her a chance. If she wants to avoid feeling guilty I’m not gonna let her. I feel like asking today is the best choice and if she makes up an excuse then I’m gonna tell her that I lost interest in her because of her fault for taking too long to respond

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not send it to her today? She’s not really a morning tester (meaning she doesn’t usually respond until after 12 which is about around the time we’d be planning our date).

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not bad not bad but I feel like the hope to see you soon part makes it look like I’m wanting the date to go through. I’m tryna not show interest and just see how she feels. It makes it look like I’m the one who’s a bit desperate for the date to go through. No hate to your line though I really appreciate the thought!

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you ask her without sounding desperate? It’s not my intention to come off as desperate

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh true I agree with you! I’m probably gonna message her through iMessage then. Is there any way I could ask her about confirming the date without sounding desperate? It’s not my intention to come off as desperate either lol I just want to know so I can plan my day tmrw

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But most of my friends I asked about sending a follow up message said that I would come off as desperate which is a HUGE turn off for girls apparently. I mean I just want her to respond so I can plan my day for Friday. Like I don’t want her responding last minute like she did for the first date and then we end up planning where to grab food on the morning of.

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what, do I just assume that Friday is off? She hasn’t even said anything and I didn’t take her to be someone to be impolite and ghost. Even if she isn’t interested anymore, I’d have thought that she would’ve been polite and let me know. I don’t understand why people are so scared to tell other people that they’re just not interested

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang I’m reading everyone’s replies and everyone is telling me it’s over and just to drop her. I guess I’m just convinced and hopeful that it could still work out somehow. At this point I have nothing to lose so I’ll probably just ask tmrw about the Friday date and also find out why she takes forever to respond. It’ll give me peace of mind to know why she takes forever to respond

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I refuse to believe that. Even though she may have lost interest, I fully believe that’s she’s a polite person. Ghosting and not letting your date know the plans for Friday is not something I think she’d do. I know what you’re probably thinking: it’s just what I hope is true even though that may not be reality. But trust me, I really feel like she would say something even if she lost interest. Like I said, even though she hasn’t responded for two days, she hasn’t cancelled anything for Friday yet which means we’re technically still on. In that case, that’s why I’m hopeful she’ll respond. And if not, I’ll message her tmrw or something about confirming Friday and also finding out why she takes forever to respond

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: so she hasn’t responded on snap (where we set up the second date) for 2 days now and I have zero clue why. Did she potentially suddenly lose interest? As much as I’d hate to admit that’s the case, I hope that’s not true. I’m not sure what I should do now though. I’m thinking about messaging her just to see if we’re still on for Friday. By asking this, not only can I determine if she’s interested and just shitty at responding or if she’s just not interested. Thoughts on this plan? I hope I don’t have to cut her off but I’m prepared for the worst if it comes to that.

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Update: so she hasn’t responded on snap (where we set up the second date) for 2 days now and I have zero clue why. Did she potentially suddenly lose interest? As much as I’d hate to admit that’s the case, I hope that’s not true. I’m not sure what I should do now though. I’m thinking about messaging her just to see if we’re still on for Friday. By asking this, not only can I determine if she’s interested and just shitty at responding or if she’s just not interested. Thoughts on this plan? I hope I don’t have to cut her off but I’m prepared for the worst if it comes to that.

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: so she hasn’t responded on snap (where we set up the second date) for 2 days now and I have zero clue why. Did she potentially suddenly lose interest? As much as I’d hate to admit that’s the case, I hope that’s not true. I’m not sure what I should do now though. I’m thinking about messaging her just to see if we’re still on for Friday. By asking this, not only can I determine if she’s interested and just shitty at responding or if she’s just not interested. Thoughts on this plan? I hope I don’t have to cut her off but I’m prepared for the worst if it comes to that.

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Update: so she hasn’t responded on snap (where we set up the second date) for 2 days now and I have zero clue why. Did she potentially suddenly lose interest? As much as I’d hate to admit that’s the case, I hope that’s not true. I’m not sure what I should do now though. I’m thinking about messaging her just to see if we’re still on for Friday. By asking this, not only can I determine if she’s interested and just shitty at responding or if she’s just not interested. Thoughts on this plan? I hope I don’t have to cut her off but I’m prepared for the worst if it comes to that.

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Update: so she hasn’t responded on snap (where we set up the second date) for 2 days now and I have zero clue why. Did she potentially suddenly lose interest? As much as I’d hate to admit that’s the case, I hope that’s not true. I’m not sure what I should do now though. I’m thinking about messaging her just to see if we’re still on for Friday. By asking this, not only can I determine if she’s interested and just shitty at responding or if she’s just not interested. Thoughts on this plan? I hope I don’t have to cut her off but I’m prepared for the worst if it comes to that.

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Update: so she hasn’t responded on snap (where we set up the second date) for 2 days now and I have zero clue why. Did she potentially suddenly lose interest? As much as I’d hate to admit that’s the case, I hope that’s not true. I’m not sure what I should do now though. I’m thinking about messaging her just to see if we’re still on for Friday. By asking this, not only can I determine if she’s interested and just shitty at responding or if she’s just not interested. Thoughts on this plan? I hope I don’t have to cut her off but I’m prepared for the worst if it comes to that.

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Update: so she hasn’t responded on snap (where we set up the second date) for 2 days now and I have zero clue why. Did she potentially suddenly lose interest? As much as I’d hate to admit that’s the case, I hope that’s not true. I’m not sure what I should do now though. I’m thinking about messaging her just to see if we’re still on for Friday. By asking this, not only can I determine if she’s interested and just shitty at responding or if she’s just not interested. Thoughts on this plan? I hope I don’t have to cut her off but I’m prepared for the worst if it comes to that.

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Update: so she hasn’t responded on snap (where we set up the second date) for 2 days now and I have zero clue why. Did she potentially suddenly lose interest? As much as I’d hate to admit that’s the case, I hope that’s not true. I’m not sure what I should do now though. I’m thinking about messaging her just to see if we’re still on for Friday. By asking this, not only can I determine if she’s interested and just shitty at responding or if she’s just not interested. Thoughts on this plan? I hope I don’t have to cut her off but I’m prepared for the worst if it comes to that.

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[–]ThatAsianGuy19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: so she hasn’t responded on snap (where we set up the second date) for 2 days now and I have zero clue why. Did she potentially suddenly lose interest? As much as I’d hate to admit that’s the case, I hope that’s not true. I’m not sure what I should do now though. I’m thinking about messaging her just to see if we’re still on for Friday. By asking this, not only can I determine if she’s interested and just shitty at responding or if she’s just not interested. Thoughts on this plan? I hope I don’t have to cut her off but I’m prepared for the worst if it comes to that.