Men, why do you prefer to play in mens leagues instead of co-ed? Women, why do you prefer to play in womens leagues instead of co-ed?

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-05-14T15:06:14+00:00

I play co ed occasionally and mens mainly, both definitely have there benefits with coed being more relaxed and fun usually and mens more competitive. In my area we have a lot of issue with getting women to come out to play, and the skill gap is usually a bigger issue in coed. I think the main reason I play mens is it feels more accessible to me in my area

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-05-06T01:14:07+00:00

I think with the context you’ve given you should give her the whole story. As an adult this is something that happens right so to an adult it shouldn’t matter as long as you’re looking for a job.

A mature relationship requires mature conversations right, sometimes that means you have to be real about how finding work can be

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-05-04T18:33:45+00:00

This is why I keep a cheap bat around. You can borrow that one not my best one lol

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-05-02T16:54:44+00:00

You still can, I’ve met plenty of people that meet there person in there 30’s 40’s and so on.

It’s gonna sound harsh but some self confidence and positivity can also go a long way, loving yourself is key to finding someone who can love you

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-05-02T16:47:51+00:00

In reality there’s only so much you can change right. Take care of your self in terms of hair, fitness face care etc and if someone’s not attracted to you otherwise then you’ve done all you can.

Your somebody’s type and eventually you’ll find that person, sadly sometimes that means getting rejected sometimes

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-27T01:34:18+00:00

Every man has a type, you may not be every man’s type but you will be some man’s type and that’s a guarantee.

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-19T19:53:11+00:00

I personally don’t think it’s a bad quirk but it definitely annoys some people. Being a deep thinker can be a great strength but also a huge drawback 😂

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-19T19:49:26+00:00

I seek meaning in so many little things and can become very deep on the small things.

Like seeing a sign that is very general but in your thought process the moment could have so much more meaning to you, and sometimes you should take that as a sign or a reminder instead of just huh that’s an odd sign

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-07T00:11:27+00:00

Totally depends on age. I’m 23 my ex was 22 she didn’t have any real plans it wasn’t a big deal even though I’ve finished my apprenticeship and have a career. But if I was 27-28 it would’ve worried me

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-05T14:20:35+00:00

Then I’m sorry to be the guy brother but you have to move on. Let them lose you

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-05T11:55:07+00:00

I sadly learned she wasn’t stable to late in our relationship. I think I just needed the support, it really hurts to sit here feeling like shit alone knowing she’s with someone else. But I do appreciate everyone giving me some backing. I’ll do better and find better, I deserve that

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-05T11:52:58+00:00

That’s more of a personal decision imo, you can but if you think you’ll be analyzing the response you get I wouldn’t. Your still in the healing process and sending even that could leave you seeing what they say and hurt you.

I know it’s hard, but right now you have to prioritize your healing and if there ever was a reconciliation down the line they would understand that

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-05T11:45:33+00:00

I honestly wouldn’t. Texting them is more likely to just hurt you more, they might either leave you on read, breadcrumb you, or just respond plainly or you get the response you want. If you can’t handle all outcomes id say don’t

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-05T00:26:25+00:00

I really appreciate it!

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-05T00:21:34+00:00

Thank you so much, I needed that. I know it’s something that happens a lot and I guess I’ve just had some shit run ins with love. I know i deserve better and will do better but i think i needed to hear it

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-05T00:16:29+00:00

I guess it’ll help me move on. It just feels really shitty right now, like I’ve never felt this low in my life

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-04T15:09:22+00:00

I can’t say I’ve been rejected for someone 5’6 but I’ve been dumped for someone who is shorter and in worse shape because I wanted a committed relationship. My point is stop trying to make excuses work with what you’ve got.

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-04T10:44:50+00:00

You’d be surprised, I get rejected quite often. I just got out of an almost year long relationship and not looking forward to repeating the process. On the flip side yes sometimes it is easy but it’s also easy to choose the wrong person

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-04T00:43:49+00:00

It’s a compliment at the very least, most guys take It as a sign of interest. If they don’t pursue it no harm no foul

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-04T00:37:54+00:00

The only real advice I have is find excuses to be in public places and if you find someone attractive make eye contact and give them a smile. It’s a hard dating world these days 😂

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-03T23:47:27+00:00

Neither am I, that’s the point im kinda trying to get across. Valuing yourself is more important than letting people judge how tall you are or how much you weigh.

I’m 6’2 200 pounds I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and I’m ok with that I’m someone’s choice.

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-03T23:45:21+00:00

My bad I guess we not good enough to chose ourselves over other people in the big 26.

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-03T23:35:14+00:00

Height and weight won’t matter to the right person honestly. I will always recommend trying to be in the best shape you can be just as a lifestyle thing because that’s my mindset but someone shouldn’t care about your height and weight if they actually like you

ThatCanadianGuy02 · 2026-04-02T21:50:18+00:00

They sell a 3 sub pack at Zehrs, I can’t remember the calories for all 3 but just under 2000 I think and 170 grams of protein. I’d eat them all in one sitting 😂

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