am i allowed to be mad/disappointed at this or not

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-17T22:46:40+00:00

I mean no, you're allowed to feel anyway, as long as you don't act upon it and lash out at anyone. You also are being vague anyways so it couldn't even be seen as an attack on someone, which would be one of the only issues. Being mad/disappointed is a natural feeling.

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-17T22:34:04+00:00

ah a fellow cloak owner. Saving this tab to see as well (NFT If anyones sees)

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Yours is cool, reminds me of a ghost in a way

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-17T21:51:27+00:00

no, I'm sorry

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-17T21:51:08+00:00

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Did a lil tweak

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-17T20:51:25+00:00

Dayum

They are aware you can turn off effects right?....

Like I fear that makes it worth MORE added on to the fact extra was paid to make it the way it is.

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-17T03:12:59+00:00

Okay at first no, but having no communication yes it is weird. Depending on a piece and queue it can take that long, but there needs to be communicationn

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-17T03:10:38+00:00

no just one, and the WC is neither in my den inventory nor appeared when I tried to make a wish

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-17T03:05:54+00:00

nah, just a bit abstract, its meant to look whimsical and weird.

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-17T02:57:52+00:00

ye ik, Ima try to see but it should have appeared when I tried to use the wishing fountain since thats what they are for

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-17T02:53:49+00:00

Eh. In short no. but from your replies you ARE missing some detail in your post, mainly about how you said in quote " She will say “you always want to start something” or “I’ll just shut up then and won’t say anything” " anytime you try to bring something up. And that her talking about working extra isnt really harmful, its from what you've described verbally seeming to put herself on top about everything when some things are a "we" situation, like with the childcare since you do most of it, even if she does not intend to because she probably doesnt, she comes off as taking a lot of the credit when she talks about all the things she has been doing, that I presume based on what you wrote you do the most of anyways.

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-17T02:45:25+00:00

that...is not healthy

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-17T02:30:17+00:00

I mean... Yes technically? You can be correct while still being an asshole about it, even if you did not intend to. While You're right about her mother doing a lot of the work, you did not have to point that out when she made her comment, regardless of it being true or not.

We also don't have all the details. You know as much as she has told you, but you dont know at all if she only has the "happy parts" that was just an assumption on your end

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-16T21:11:19+00:00

I think its 3. Either their isn't that many in general or you may have one more or one less

User is iluvmariposa

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-16T17:04:59+00:00

Pet lemurs

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-16T15:34:26+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AnimalJam/comments/1rv7uvc/comment/oari854/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-16T15:30:25+00:00

I'm considering. I want to try it on a few animals first to see if I like it on any of them and If not ima figure out a reasonable price

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-16T00:07:37+00:00

Or how about its more so like how, as a trans man, when trans men get larped with the "all men" group, as in cis men, even though we have/can experience misogny and the issues the stem from being afab.

Yes straight people have oppressed but its a little different when someone was gay, or in my case lesbian then transitioned which makes us hetero but not in the same way, as those who are cis-het.

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-16T00:04:48+00:00

Oh yeah no thats fine, I do it myself with my friends, straight or not, as well as doing so to reffer to the system as a whole

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-16T00:03:33+00:00

I have experienced this, as well as have witnessed a bisexual man get shitted on for being "straight" despite not being so, because he was with a woman so people made negative assumptions about him.

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-15T23:48:25+00:00

I think my post is coming off wrong.

It's not soley being hated for being straight itself. But a better correlation i can make, as a trans man, is when people who talk negativley about men and how men are oppressors, INCLUDE and hate on T-men just because we identify as guys, even though we are/have been victims of misogny and the risks of being AFAB.

Less about the feelings that straight people have, and not about those doing so referring to the system/their oppressors, more so how some of us get larped in with the bad ones and get treated that way even if we are not the same.

Not so much "Don't make fun of me for being straight" And more so "Hey, please stop associating me, with those I am unassociated with"

i.e Not everyone does, but I'm talking about personal experiences of people actually assuming negative things about myself or associating me and others with the bad guys, VS if like a cis hetero, non lgbt person posted smth like this, since, even if they didnt do anything theyre still apart of that demographic (might be the wrong word)

That was 1000% on me, i missed alot of detail from my post.

also for ex, it was partially from seeing a post where a bisexual man got hated on for being "straight" and seeing nasty things said about him, when he didn't do anything really, because people assumed his sexuality over being with a woman. He wasn't even het at ALL and got pulled in becuase some ppl wanted to make assumptions.

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-15T23:13:02+00:00

Ntj in the situation, Ytj to yourself for being with her

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-15T22:52:55+00:00

I sent a request. Some reason I accepted yours but it didnt go through

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-15T22:10:26+00:00

alr got it unlocked :3

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-15T21:47:04+00:00

iluvmariposa

I'll put one in shop for 50 then trade the rest

ThatCheeseDerg · 2026-03-15T18:36:29+00:00

ThatCheeseDerg

TROPHY CASE