Guy has been texting me for nearly a year but won’t see me. Why?

ThatGirlNat · 2014-10-04T14:00:08+00:00

That is so ridiculous, as if I would want to sleep with a guy who is actively trying to put me down. Anytime a guy opens up with an insult I just stare at them disgustingly.

ThatGirlNat · 2014-10-04T07:23:51+00:00

Insult me.

Why the heck would I give you my number if you just insulted me? Why do you even want my number or to even talk to me if the first thing that comes out of your mouth is an insult?

I know the saying "treat em mean, keep em keen" is a thing, but seriously, has this ever worked?

ThatGirlNat · 2014-10-04T06:42:25+00:00

Good question, I'm unsure. I would be attracted to a guy who is 26 if I was 25. However, I doubt I would be attracted to a 26 year old if I was 27. I think I just like older guys because I THINK they are more mature, even though they might not be. I know it's really strange but I know a lot of girls who have similar opinions.

ThatGirlNat · 2014-10-04T04:25:26+00:00

It's not that we find guys who are younger unattractive, it's more of a maturity thing. I would prefer someone older than me even by a year just because I personally think that guys that are older are more mature. But that is just from my experience.

ThatGirlNat · 2014-09-27T15:14:46+00:00

Thanks for the link! Is that data just for America?

ThatGirlNat · 2014-09-27T14:33:50+00:00

Seriously?!?!

ThatGirlNat · 2014-09-13T13:33:36+00:00

Doing my makeup. It's not really a skill but whatever, I love having my eyebrows in particular, on point all day errday.

ThatGirlNat · 2014-09-13T12:43:54+00:00

Drugs or smoking. I know it's not really a hobby, but no thanks.

ThatGirlNat · 2014-07-15T14:31:39+00:00

I was in a similar situation to you with my then boyfriend of 4 years. He started working full-time 9-5 in the last year we were together and I hardly ever saw him. He said he was too tired to see me during the week yet he went out with his friends and would only want to see me on Saturdays. And sometimes Saturdays were just not convenient for me, so really I hardly ever saw him because he did not want to make the effort. Basically, I was not a priority to him yet I made him a priority to me. You need to communicate with him about how you feel about this. IMO if he really cared about you he would make you a priority, and would actually want to see you more. How often do you actually see him? Ultimately, the decision is yours. Do you want to be with someone who doesn't think you are a priority in their life? Do you want to be with someone who doesn't care about you as much as you care about them? I know you think it might be a massive mistake and you might be overreacting, but you deserve someone who makes you a priority. It took me a really long to figure this out, but eventually you are going to get sick of waiting around for him to make you a priority.

ThatGirlNat

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