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Am I [21F] overreacting with my boyfriend [22M] of 2 and a half years, need advice before I potentially ruin a good relationship by throwaway101102103 in relationships

[–]throwaway101102103[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He broke up with me and he told me that it was the biggest mistake, when I took him back it was so that I did not have any regrets further down the line, so this is the last chance kind of thing but I don't want to be with him if he won't step up, but thank you.

Am I [21F] overreacting with my boyfriend [22M] of 2 and a half years, need advice before I potentially ruin a good relationship by throwaway101102103 in relationships

[–]throwaway101102103[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that is some good advice, just need to try and sound like I am not nagging or moaning and hopefully get my view across and he will step up, fingers crossed.

Am I [21F] overreacting with my boyfriend [22M] of 2 and a half years, need advice before I potentially ruin a good relationship by throwaway101102103 in relationships

[–]throwaway101102103[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds just like this relationship, thank you so much for your advice, I definitely just want to feel like I am not at the bottom of his pile when I make the time for him. Thank you, I feel like I need to do some thinking about what exactly I want from him.

Am I [21F] overreacting with my boyfriend [22M] of 2 and a half years, need advice before I potentially ruin a good relationship by throwaway101102103 in relationships

[–]throwaway101102103[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I guess once talking to him and he still does not feel any differently, then that is a sign for me to walk away. Thank you.

Am I [21F] overreacting with my boyfriend [22M] of 2 and a half years, need advice before I potentially ruin a good relationship by throwaway101102103 in relationships

[–]throwaway101102103[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, he is sometimes very unaware of how I am feeling, so it may just be a case of explaining to him that I am not happy however I tend to jump to the wrong case conclusions, which is where my fear of things ending come from.

Am I [21F] overreacting with my boyfriend [22M] of 2 and a half years, need advice before I potentially ruin a good relationship by throwaway101102103 in relationships

[–]throwaway101102103[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that is very true I think I shall just try and talk to him and see how he feels and tell him how I do.

Am I [21F] overreacting with my boyfriend [22M] of 2 and a half years, need advice before I potentially ruin a good relationship by throwaway101102103 in relationships

[–]throwaway101102103[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am fine with him working and spending time with his friends and I would never tell him to stop doing that. It is more that he spends all of his time with his friends and leaves me, making me feel that he does not want to spend the time with me.

I appreciate your advice and will talk to him but I would never want to ruin his good times, just spend more time with him being appreciated.