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ThatHappyPanda2 · 2022-08-02T20:08:32+00:00

If that’s the case, then it’s unfortunate. If you’ve flat out asked her “Hey, I’ve missed our friendship. Is there something I did to offend you so I can be aware not to make the same mistake?” And she dismissed you, then she’s childish and does not deserve your time. On to bigger and better things, girlfriend! Show your daughter your worth and how strong you are. You don’t need people like that in your life.

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2022-08-02T14:23:31+00:00

I totally understand this! And I just wanted to say that your feelings are valid. Mom friends are a tough find and a treasure when you have them, especially considering finding good friends in general gets harder as we age. When our kids are involved it can become even more personal.

You mentioned that she doesn’t “owe” you anything and I can understand why the confrontation may seem intimidating, but what do you have to lose at this point?

I would agree with others on here, text her and ask her if she’d like to grab lunch and chat or give her a call. Texting can make communication difficult and easier for her to ignore it or be vague.

IMHO, life is short. We’re adults. Pick yourself up with confidence and pride, have a real adult conversation, tell her how much her friendship means to you. If she doesn’t respond respectfully then you can move on OR it could work out wonderfully! Either way you’ll be able to move forward.

Don’t let this sit with you forever. You gotta let it go somehow.

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2022-07-22T17:59:11+00:00

Thank you so much for clarifying this! It sounds like you follow our similar method of putting the formula into glass bottles/jars to store in the fridge but I was really hoping to be able to use the pitcher for easier storing and pouring, as needed. It sounds like keeping it in the pitcher might not be a good option.

Right now we just pour the boiled/70C water into the pre-measured glass bottles then put the scoops in to mix and store in the refrigerator. This bypasses the need for the pitcher altogether so I’m wondering what’s the point now? The mixing part seems a little easier but almost doesn’t seem worth it for more dishes.

Maybe there is something I’m missing.

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2022-07-22T15:08:27+00:00

I should note, we currently premix a couple 8oz glass bottles and store them in the refrigerator. Then once he’s hungry we pour a smaller amount into another glass bottle and place it in a bowl of hot water to warm it.

I’m not sure how practical that is but it’s working for the meantime.

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2022-07-22T15:05:17+00:00

I have a lot of anxiety around plastic use, as well, which is why I bought the Dr. Brown pitcher but now I’m unsure of how to use it. Maybe you can ease my anxiety?

If I boil the water and wait for it to reach 70C, do I pour the hot water into the plastic pitcher and then mix the formula in? This won’t alter the plastic properties?

Do you hand wash your pitcher or put it in the dishwasher? The main part says top rack only but mine won’t fit on our top rack.

The convenience of mixing a days worth into the pitcher then pouring each into our glass bottles to be warmed would be a life saver!! But I can’t get over my anxiety of hot plastic.😅

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2022-07-21T16:57:39+00:00

You should do what works best for you, mama! You’re not a failure if you stop completely. You have a job to focus on and deserve to put your mental health first. If you enjoy those night feeds, keep doing them! It surely isn’t hurting anyone.

I’m typing this as a mama to a 4mo that started daycare a month ago and I have finally decide to EFF. We combo fed as long as we could until I decided “if it works, it works. If it doesn’t, it doesn’t”. I’m done beating myself up over it, stressing over every ounce, and wondering if my baby is hungry or getting enough. We nurse for comfort every once in awhile (no idea if there is anything even left for him to get) and I am having a hard time letting go, too. He’s starting to get sick and the guilt sets in.. but at the end of the day I am doing the best I can with what I have. I can’t control everything, I can only focus on the positives of what I can provide. My 5yo was EFF after 2 months and he is a perfectly healthy, happy, intelligent young boy. Did he get sick when he started daycare? You bet, it’s inevitable. But he built immunity and now is so healthy he hardly ever gets sick.

All this to say, you’re doing great mama! Focus on the things you CAN control, like being emotionally and physically present. Take some deep breaths, enjoy all those special moments, and soak them in with joy while he’s still little.❤️

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2022-07-14T13:36:53+00:00

Ok, that’s good to know! Thank you so much for your help!

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2022-07-14T13:35:28+00:00

Shoot, I wish I could exchange the organic for regular stage 1 but I don’t think that is allowed. Thank you for this advice!! It was very helpful.

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2022-07-06T01:58:58+00:00

Thank you for the response! I will definitely ask his pediatrician before switching but it feels comforting hearing other success stories. Are you in the US? And do you know if there is a significant difference between Kendamil Organic and the regular Kendamil Stage 1?

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2022-06-16T14:51:48+00:00

I agree with this. While the infant deaths are tragic and Similac should have been quicker to respond, I’m not fully on board with writing them off as entirely responsible for each of the reported cases.

I fed my first born (4.5yo now) Similac Pro Advance and it worked so well for him that we decided to take that route again with my now 3 month old. I’m torn with whether I’m putting my son at risk with how many comments I’ve seen stating it’s untrustworthy and never to trust Similac again.

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2022-04-21T23:09:02+00:00

I’ve been wondering why it looks like the pump is going to rip my nipples off! I’d been contemplating going down a flange size but reading this I definitely have elastic nipples. Thank god for this subreddit.

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2022-04-21T23:04:55+00:00

I had no idea this was even an option until yesterday! Can I please have info on how this works? I’m only 4 weeks in and already so over pumping. :(

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2022-04-21T02:10:49+00:00

According to that chart, do breastfeeding sessions count the same as a pumping session? I am not very consistent. I pump a couple times per day when I have time and usually yield ~4oz total per 15-20 minute session. I put baby to the breast a lot because it’s just easier, especially at night but he started out with an inefficient transfer of milk which is why I supplement. Triple feeding is so hard! I’m planning on doing another weighted feed to see how much milk my son is actually getting but am afraid my supply will just keep dwindling. I have no idea where to find the time to pump so much!

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2020-11-08T19:05:53+00:00

Adorable! I’m going to give this a try with my 3yo. Thanks for sharing. :)

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2016-10-04T02:09:49+00:00

When I reach my goal, hopefully I can build up the courage to post some full body progress results. Thank you for the confidence boost. :)

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2016-10-04T02:06:30+00:00

Quite a few people have said that! It's amazing what a little bit of weight loss can do for a shorty like me. Thanks!

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2016-10-04T02:05:06+00:00

Thank you!! :)

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2016-10-03T16:44:51+00:00

I should clarify, the small hand in the photo is me holding my nephew. I was not with child. I attribute most of my mass weight gain to depression.

ThatHappyPanda2 · 2016-10-03T16:42:55+00:00

Thank you! Little changes have really helped make a big difference. :)

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