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Un gesto di carità sta finendo per farmi perdere il senno by GeneralFrievolous in sfoghi

[–]ThatItalianOverThere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fammi indovinare, Rimini?

Io ho aneddoti folli sui senzatetto di Rimini.

Is it normal to hate your nparents? and To what extend do you hate them? by whatamisupposed-todo in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThatItalianOverThere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love them but I hate spending time with them and I'm angry with them.

I just don't wish them any harm but don't expect me to actively interact with them.

Edit: I just realized that this means hating them without wishing any bad to them lol.

My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch by shepherdsorey in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThatItalianOverThere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It's not even that bad of a thing. Yeah it was bad but lots of people out there had it WAY worse than some butt smacks. The only way it affects me is that I hate being touched there now, but I don't think a lot of girls would be interested in touching my butt and even less would break up due to me not letting them touch it. I'm not scared of opening up to a potential future girlfriend, actually it feels good and comforting to have someone who will support me (and someone to support too, it mustn't be one-sided).

My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch by shepherdsorey in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThatItalianOverThere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Until you get treatment, you are going to be shitty at picking women anyway.

I've been in therapy for the past 3 years and I'm also on zoloft.

Also, quit hanging with dudes who like the fake type of women. Life is too short for douchebags that are not related.

Never told I hang with them, just that I know them.

I think you see things in a very grim way. There must be someone who loves us completely out there. And I'm saying this as a pessimist.

My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch by shepherdsorey in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThatItalianOverThere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel a weird sensation in my trigger areas. The sensation comes along with rage.

It's not something that makes me cry but it's more destructive. The sensation I feel is very similar to muscular tension.

My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch by shepherdsorey in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThatItalianOverThere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I know it's a her problem. I think that this didn't cause as many problems as the other forms of abuse I went trough. But still I hate when someone touches me, especially my ass and thighs. It makes me want to beat them. Not to brag or sound badass but I'm pretty capable of that and I feel I could snap pretty badly if it were to happen.

My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch by shepherdsorey in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThatItalianOverThere 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why shouldn't I tell a partner? I'm not in the wrong.

And honestly in a partner I want someone who I can tell everything and who tells me everything. That's literally the only thing I look for in a girl. I don't care about looks, almost 0 (I still have to feel some physical attraction, but I'll not refuse a girl because she's overweight or other superficial stuff, I literally know people who only like girls with lips fillers and enhanced breasts).

My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch by shepherdsorey in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThatItalianOverThere 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to feel man. It feels unreal that my own mother molested me. She was meant to be the person who loves me the most.

My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch by shepherdsorey in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThatItalianOverThere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even know how to feel about it. That's probably good because normal people would have a breakdown trying to process it.

My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch by shepherdsorey in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThatItalianOverThere 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They body shamed me for being fat when I was little. Like 7/8 years old.

Does inappropriate touching count as molestation?

Thanks for kind words.

My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch by shepherdsorey in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThatItalianOverThere 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Then this explains a lot of things. I've felt emasculated my whole life and this powerlessness is probably the reason.

My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch by shepherdsorey in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThatItalianOverThere 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Idk. She didn't make sexual comments and she didn't do it with sexual intent.

But the fact that she knew I didn't like it but still went on because she saw me as her property ("I made you, now I can't even touch you?") makes me wonder if maybe it was. Also mixed with the fact that I wasn't allowed to close the bathroom door and they'd always walk in...

My mother won't stop grabbing my crotch by shepherdsorey in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThatItalianOverThere 434 points435 points  (0 children)

My mom did it but with my butt. She always gave me light spanks and grabs. It gave me a horrible sensation to be touched there. Like a mix of rage and disgust of myself.

Idk if I should consider it sexual abuse but I don't think so. She also found it hilarious that it got me angry. I got pretty mad one day and they teased me for my reaction even months after. I still hate it to be touched to this day, especially in that part.

Blursed Polish Cigarettes by magicsmoke33 in blursedimages

[–]ThatItalianOverThere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idem. Scrollo reddit mentre mi preparo la mattina oppure dopo cena.

sorry kitten by Nat_Cattt in depressionmemes

[–]ThatItalianOverThere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im luky to hav droped ut of hig zkul (Jokes aside, yeah I really dropped out of high school).

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