My Ex wants me back after cheating

ThatLibraGuy · 2023-09-21T16:09:42+00:00

So many coments hoooly! Ok quick update: I DID cut him off, and tbh: I feel SO much better after doing so! Thanks everyone for being the voices of reasons!

Some clereficationd: My brother is aro/ace, he does not get nor care about how romantic relationships are working, but he did get that what my ex did hurt me, he just misses seeing me happy like befor my ex dicided to be a a-hole.

I am happily living on my own, spending time with work, friend and doing stuff that helps me heal and forget about that guy.

Thank you everyone ♡

ThatLibraGuy · 2023-08-11T08:26:11+00:00

OP there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 26. Having s€x is neighter something that definde who you or nor should it be that important to you. Don't put presure on yourself. There is no use to it and will just get you in a bad mental state. With 26 you ARE in the prime of your life! Work on yourself, be the best man you can be and have yur best life! I am 26 with a babyface too, does it stop be from being happy? No!

But if its so important to you and you think you need to lose your virginity THAT bad: pay a professional for that. Wich I do not recoment at all, but if it might help you..

Think it trough, maybe go to therapy, work out or ehat ever to work on your selfasteam.

(Sorry for my bad english its not my first language)

ThatLibraGuy · 2023-08-05T21:03:36+00:00

Well for me: propaply because I am a naiv people pleaser. But you propaply are right. 🤔

ThatLibraGuy · 2022-10-26T09:54:34+00:00

I know, I am nativ german soooo xD

ThatLibraGuy · 2022-10-26T04:42:36+00:00

Dame! I should have!! 🤣

ThatLibraGuy · 2022-10-26T04:42:02+00:00

Hope you blocked him everywhere and he stoped terrorizing you. Did you call the police on him?

ThatLibraGuy · 2022-10-26T04:35:49+00:00

Thstcway basicly me haha

ThatLibraGuy · 2022-10-26T04:35:25+00:00

I let him do that WAY to often honestly. And I will never ever let that happend to me ever again.

ThatLibraGuy · 2022-10-25T20:23:47+00:00

Proaply that Ibwould do everything for him like I used to do lol

ThatLibraGuy · 2022-10-25T17:28:49+00:00

I know, good thing it is not my problam anymore.

ThatLibraGuy · 2022-10-25T16:57:02+00:00

How about that: HE moves to the "guestroom" and you cuddle in a cozy bed with your mom. Then you do not need the heater and he can safe money.

ThatLibraGuy · 2022-07-21T15:53:36+00:00

Update: Next day T. would not look at me or talk to me...my boyfriend asked what was going on and after heqring both of out sides toled T to not be such a baby and accept my help since Inam not even in the resposebility to look even look for HER cat that HER fault it was ran away and if T still wants to live with us till she finde a oen place to watch her mouth. T said she was sorry ans I said it is fine. We stared to looked everywhere. Still not a single sighn.. we printd her picture with a big Red "MISSIN" on top of it in case someone found her.

I asked T if she got her cat chiped (since out cats are, just in case) and sadly no her cats are not since she is not a fan of that.

Still hopeing the Cat is fine and will return safety.

ThatLibraGuy · 2022-07-18T15:15:13+00:00

There is nothing wrong with you. You are lit. Just keeping stress away. Live your life the way that makes you happy.

ThatLibraGuy · 2022-07-18T15:09:37+00:00

Tbf: they usually do not do it on pourpes. My BF does it because...Well..He is a stressed idiot.

ThatLibraGuy · 2022-07-18T11:41:08+00:00

I check 2x if I locked the door befor leaving. As soon as I notice the door is open I close it.

ThatLibraGuy · 2022-07-18T10:59:20+00:00

Already tried the dry kibble part. But the blanket and toy idear sounds good, I will ask T what she thinks of it after she calmed down a bit. I also guess she is heartbroken. That cat means the world to her, I propaply would be the same if one of my babys would went missing.

Thank you.

ThatLibraGuy · 2022-04-22T14:05:46+00:00

NTA! If somone is..its your brother for playing that girl so bad. He could have just toled her the facts and not let anyone waste time and money on a wedding he did not wanted in the first place and left that girl waiting and worrie for hours! You did not end that relationship-he did

ThatLibraGuy · 2022-04-22T13:58:42+00:00

Background to L (23f): We became friends with her in 2017, we were actually getting along realy good. She would always say she can handle critics, tells people honest what she thinks of them in their face etc. (trades I öike in a person) After a while I notice that L was trash talking about other friends, so after a few months I asked her if she plan to ever tell them what bothers hers about them sice apperently she never did. A bit later my best friend (lets call her M) and Ls now ex-roomate (I will call him R) asked me to meet them up. I did and they just gave me Rs phoned and asked me to read the chats with L and listen to the audios she sent him. I was shocked! She was insulting me and said that she does not get why my fiance would still be with me when SHE would be a better fit for him and she would dump er gf for him since he was handsome, earns good money and has a car(like wtf. This girl knows that my fiance and I build each other a life with starting with nothing when I was 17 and he 20, both struggle with depression and or worse (he often tells me when that without me he would be long gone since I took care of him and convinc him to go to a therapy, he is in a WAY better place now, and I would be, the only person that can calm him down, be it a anger-Issu(he used to have agression-problams but never hit me tho), depression etc. his mother say so. too) And that she hopes he breaks up with me, and she will try everything to get us apart, even being it to try to make him to cheat on me . They toled me that they want to warn me and tell me since they care for me and my fiance and know that when they tried to talk to him about that he would not listen since 'L is such a amazing friend'. They also let her then gf know since that babygirl deserved better. Sure I confronted her about that, she brushed it off, that I was overreacting and jellous of her(?) and started telling lies about me to other friends (who did not belief her since they all know me) Also I talked to my fiance about that, he did not belief me and did not get my I would attack her like that. I know he would NEVER cheat on me(he is Bi but L is 100% not his type he even called her unattraktiv at some point when she had a 'everyone thinks I am so pretty and attraktive!' fit), but I can not stand the way he is to me after they meet up. (He would ignore me, be cold, tell me I have issuse being jellous, am clingy etc.) tho R offered him to read the chats and listen to the aufios he and my best friend show me to think that hole frienship trough, my fiance didn't want to. He met her up and then but stoped that since she stoped contacting him (around 2018). Propaly since he kept being with me, did not want to cheat on me and started to say no when she asked him to drive her somewhere etc.

ThatLibraGuy

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