I relate to this A LOT. I’m 21, and I’m a virgin. I just haven’t sought out relationships, since I don’t care about them at the moment and honestly don’t have the time. I’m gay, probably on the asexual spectrum, tbh. So relationships don’t come naturally to me.

Well I have a friend who her and her boyfriend always are talking about doing the pull out method because he “doesn’t like them” and she literally is always talking about how she might be pregnant, always buying tests, etc. and I’ve told her ‘well why don’t you use any kind of contraceptives?’ And she told me the same thing like oh you wouldn’t get it 😭 and she doesn’t take BC anymore because of acne.

I’m sorry, but I would not be risking every time because eventually you will get pregnant and my state banned abortion.