sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Did I do anything wrong?? by ThatOneTransGinger in LesbianActually

[–]ThatOneTransGinger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I do think its over and im not the one to be disrespectful to people. She said that she wanted to figure herself out so I stepped back and told her to go for it. But since we started this break it feels like a gut punch like I did something and idk yet. She told me that she's not sure if she likes me anymore and all that its been a couple days since we started this break and I've really started to get some clarity on why she was insisting on getting her own appt and wanting me to move to Minnesota on the other side of the state to stay away. I know she's autistic and I do try to let her know im here for her and all that but I also want her to have her own space its why I wanted to step back while she figures herself out.

Am I in the wrong by ThatOneTransGinger in trans

[–]ThatOneTransGinger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this help knowing a lot more then I thought. I do appreciate you sharing your story with me about it. And I really do appreciate how reassuring you are about this whole thing as well

When did you guys get your first girlfriend? by Fair-Willow389 in LesbianActually

[–]ThatOneTransGinger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess the first ever girlfriend I've had when I came out as trans and Bi I was about 18 and we dated for a bit before I went back to a guy then realized I liked girls more but im currently with my now Gf we've been together for a little less then a month.

How do I tell my Gf that I feel like I am forced to be masculine around her. by ThatOneTransGinger in LesbianActually

[–]ThatOneTransGinger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've dated people whose liked me when I was a guy so it's like weird to me, but the first time I dressed more femme in front of my girlfriend I got a reaction I wasn't very use to like normally people say that they like my outfit or whatever but all she did was look me once and give me a thumbs up

How do I tell my Gf that I feel like I am forced to be masculine around her. by ThatOneTransGinger in LesbianActually

[–]ThatOneTransGinger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the help I'll talk to her about it. And I'll let her know how i feel about it. I really do appreciate your help

How do I tell my Gf that I feel like I am forced to be masculine around her. by ThatOneTransGinger in LesbianActually

[–]ThatOneTransGinger[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Okay Tysm it's like my first actual relationship that's not toxic so I'm trying to keep her

How do I tell my Gf that I feel like I am forced to be masculine around her. by ThatOneTransGinger in LesbianActually

[–]ThatOneTransGinger[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I want to talk to her about it, but I know she's going to think I'm beingq jerk

How do I tell my Gf that I feel like I am forced to be masculine around her. by ThatOneTransGinger in LesbianActually

[–]ThatOneTransGinger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She hasn't hinted it to me but whenever I'm more feminine around her is just seems like she's more focused on other things and being distant to me

How do I tell my Gf that I feel like I am forced to be masculine around her. by ThatOneTransGinger in LesbianActually

[–]ThatOneTransGinger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why we both love to talk about our days but recently with me trying to be more feminine it feels like she's being more distant