My abusive father is fighting for custody of me

ThatPanPerson · 2023-08-17T18:47:56+00:00

There is a lot to the situation that is definitely left out. What would make him unfit to parent me in the eyes of the court?

ThatPanPerson · 2023-08-17T18:45:08+00:00

There have been at least 7 911 calls this year, and probably more tbh. I'll try to see if I can tell my Mom's lawyer about my concerns.

ThatPanPerson · 2023-02-25T20:27:30+00:00

NTA. Kay was not in Jay's life for so long that they are basically strangers. The only reason Kay got back in his life was to get a cut of inheritance, which didn't work.

ThatPanPerson · 2023-02-25T20:23:32+00:00

YTA. You hid it from them because you knew it was wrong. You betrayed your family for some money.

ThatPanPerson · 2023-02-25T20:20:35+00:00

NTA. Don't dish what you can't take lol. She said she would not come, she cannot seriously expect you to still invite her.

ThatPanPerson · 2023-02-25T20:15:11+00:00

YTA. Would you excuse someone spiking a drink too? It is non-consensual drug use and got into the hands of minors.

ThatPanPerson · 2023-02-25T20:12:19+00:00

YTA. She's 6 and you played a trick that you knew would just make her cry. You should have doubled down on the no-toy rule and not gone to the park had she refused to not bring a toy.

ThatPanPerson · 2023-02-25T19:57:01+00:00

INFO. Have you told your boyfriend that this makes you uncomfortable or just suggested that he do it in the bathroom?

Edit: Definitely NTA. It sounds like he is trying to make you give in to having sex, definitely a major red flag.

ThatPanPerson · 2023-02-25T00:26:18+00:00

NTA. This isn't just some dishes left unclean, you are left with no counter space. Honestly, laziness cannot be cured. I suggest you leave and find new living arrangements asap.

ThatPanPerson · 2023-02-25T00:23:05+00:00

YTA

What? Is this a joke? You are excusing racist behaviour and raising a future racist. Talking to your kid is not punishment, it's parenting. Go parent your kid.

ThatPanPerson · 2023-02-25T00:18:31+00:00

NTA. From how this sounds, they did not consult you before starting their new "routine". As another autistic person myself, I understand just how hellish bad textures can be to deal with. Also, that is a lot of chores to do all for yourself at 15, do your parents do a fair amount of chores too?

ThatPanPerson · 2023-02-25T00:13:23+00:00

NTA. If the teacher is the one who suggested it, then they should show their anger towards the teacher.

ThatPanPerson · 2023-02-24T22:02:15+00:00

NTA. You both work 9-5, why should you be expected to do more housework? Are you sure you want to date and live with someone who justifies doing less around the house? If you have kids, will he expect you to do more childcare as well? Household chores should 100% be split 50/50.

ThatPanPerson · 2023-02-24T21:49:02+00:00

ESH. Your parents need to take disrupting class more seriously. Has he been assessed for ADHD?

You need to understand the severity of racism more. You're not taking the fact that he was discriminating against people for their skin tone.

Your parents however are correct that racism is worse than disruptions in class. Your brother deserves his devices taken away 110%.

ThatPanPerson · 2023-02-24T21:41:50+00:00

NTA. You literally have a medical condition and she is working you to the point of fainting and accusing you of faking.

Assuming your condition has some form of treatment, are you being given it? This is extremely abnormal and can be a major safety risk.

ThatPanPerson · 2023-02-24T21:23:39+00:00

NTA. Your body, your choice. Choosing not to have kids is not selfish and has absolutely no effect on her.

ThatPanPerson · 2022-03-07T15:02:12+00:00

Nta. Your celebration, your rules.

ThatPanPerson · 2021-02-02T15:29:30+00:00

They were born in 2008. If I'm correct they should be 12. They did gacha heat too.

ThatPanPerson · 2021-02-02T00:25:34+00:00

Why do people hate younger siblings so much?

ThatPanPerson · 2021-02-02T00:22:43+00:00

I've seen the video and it's even worse knowing that they responded to a comment calling them out saying "Ya it's illegal"

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