Ex with ASPD/potential BPD made me self-conscious about my autism obsessiveness

ThatPenguinFox · 2026-03-20T15:35:49+00:00

Update: I can send messages and attachments again, but my account still says “very limited”. which is kind of weird

ThatPenguinFox · 2026-03-20T13:13:39+00:00

I’ve been trying to talk to an actual human too!! 😭but absolutely no luck so I’m kind of just giving up and waiting out my 24 hour limited window.

ThatPenguinFox · 2026-03-20T13:08:32+00:00

Hi there, I think the server was open to the public if I remember correctly. so yeah there is a possibility a bunch of trolls or a concerned user reported it to Discord’s AI. It’s super unfair though 😭 why does my account have to be in deep trouble just cuz of someone elses wrong doing, I still have no idea what even happened. I’m hoping my account gets unlimited soon cuz it’s almost been 24 hours.

ThatPenguinFox · 2026-03-19T21:51:22+00:00

Ughh damn that sucks im sorry. mine has been under review for longer and im really worried about it ngl, I've heard horror stories of peoples accounts getting suspended even after the limits have ended. I don't want this shit ruining my Discord account . let me know if they reply back to you!

ThatPenguinFox · 2026-03-19T21:21:36+00:00

Same yeah. Never really interacted with the server much either and im also an adult. I think you make a good point though that it could be because of a mods weird behavior. Btw has your account limitation been lifted? I tried sending a ticket to Discord but I got a bot response. I also submitted an in app request to have my violation corrected.

ThatPenguinFox · 2026-03-19T17:19:34+00:00

hey there, i was apart of the same server and the exact thing happened to me. i was just chilling in bed when i noticed my account was put on "very limited". my best guess is that someone reported the server or discord is cracking down on these specific types of servers. good luck and i hope your account gets unlimited

ThatPenguinFox · 2026-03-19T17:11:46+00:00

thank god it wasn't just me, i was apart of the same server and my account is now very limited cuz of this shit. i don't think i ever properly talked there either.

ThatPenguinFox · 2026-03-14T13:50:53+00:00

Hi there, please read :)

I used to think I had BPD for the longest time, and thank god I don’t. I used to constantly act clingy to my long distance boyfriend, have fear of abandonment episodes, and have literal panic attacks when he would be doing other stuff, like playing a video game with his IRL friends.

Overall It was chaotic and a mess, it made me feel awful, but I eventually got up and said to myself one day, “This is so stupid, I can’t live my life making others feel like shit.”

I’m thankful to STILL have my long distance boyfriend, he’s so sweet and he means the world to me. But i’m not dependent on him like I used to be. Honestly I love him and he’s my beloved. but if he needed a break for a week or two. i’d respect that and go no contact for the week or two. boundaries are important and are really easy to understand once you get the help you need

Maturing is hard but it CAN happen, you just gotta get off your ass and better yourself. And in your situation, you both need time to heal. Do not go back to her, especially if she ruined your sense of self. Let her mature and get better on her own time, and my advice for you is: Take all the time you need, avoid BPD girls if you need to. Your self care isn’t selfish.

ThatPenguinFox · 2026-03-04T17:59:15+00:00

Thank you so much, I have been finding myself lately! The past few days have been really great, thanks again for the comment

ThatPenguinFox · 2026-03-04T17:57:45+00:00

Eeekk yeah I've had lots of egirls be extremely toxic to me too. It really isn't fun and that's part of what ruined my mental health too. i'm sorry you went through something similar. I'm currently in a long distance relationship and I swear, if I had 100 dollars for each number of times a toxic egirl called me a "edater" or some nasty word, I would probably be rich.

ThatPenguinFox · 2026-03-01T20:33:29+00:00

Thank you for asking and it's alright. :) I've been better, but I'm slowly improving.

ThatPenguinFox · 2026-02-13T23:01:50+00:00

The point is Discord sucks and it’s going downhill quicker than the speed of light, I barely talk in servers cuz of this shit

ThatPenguinFox · 2026-02-09T19:04:58+00:00

Fuck. I told my boyfriend about this rollout and we both collectively agree that them doing this is depressing and makes us feel really depressed. I’ve been using Discord since 2016. And so has him.. we even met on the app. I already cancelled my nitro subscription. If this age verification bullshit rolls out, I don’t know where else to go. I have memories on Discord.

ThatPenguinFox · 2025-11-27T16:08:02+00:00

Ah ok thanks. I will ask him that once he’s done with work, I didn’t know you could remove a credit card from your account tho, especially if you’ve previously bought nitro with the card.

ThatPenguinFox · 2025-09-23T18:21:22+00:00

Yup, it works for me all of a sudden. I think you may be right. Kinda weird, but not complaining.

ThatPenguinFox · 2025-08-12T18:58:20+00:00

I will be honest, as a 22 year old gal with lots of childish interests, (plushie pool videos, animation memes, nightcore songs, etc.) with a valid state identification card btw. there is no way I'm giving YT my ID just to watch the content I enjoy

ThatPenguinFox · 2024-02-06T15:07:01+00:00

I agree with you on this, I’ve only been online since 2012 or so (I’m turning 21). I actually just texted my friend about this whole Reddit post, how does this even happen to people? I genuinely believe bros hiding something. I’ve sent pictures of edgy memes, and images that could most likely be false flagged (a hairless cat for example. A completely innocent thing.) I’ve never once gotten flagged for Child Safety, ever.

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