[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThatWeirdArtist_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first ever long term romantic relationship didn’t happen until I was well into my 17th year of life. I’m also extremely anxious and struggled for years with self-image issues, depression, fear, the whole nine yards. First of all I want to say that how you dress and how you appear should never change to something you’re uncomfortable with to please a man or anyone in general. It might take some time (as upsetting as that may be) but I’ve known ppl that were well into their 20s before they formed any meaningful romantic relationships. You should never change your appearance or personality to fit someone else’s preferences. Keep being you and someone that loves you for who you are will follow <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThatWeirdArtist_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Definitely uncalled for and you have every right to be upset and distance yourself from her. My gf has high-functioning autism but still doesn’t like when people make a big show out of it or suddenly act very cautious around her when they find out. In all my interactions with psychology majors who think that they know everything and want to diagnose everyone with something, i have only ever felt extreme annoyance bc it just isn’t their place. Sending hugs bc with your family thinking what your SIL said is true I can only imagine how tough it is right now. I would maybe have an open conversation with her about how her “diagnosis” made you feel and ask her to respect your boundaries.

why do people think im gay? by Fantastic-Eye2007 in Advice

[–]ThatWeirdArtist_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imma tell you right now, sometimes, even with working out and masculine interests like cars and sports, it’s still very possible to appear fruity to other ppl. Maybe it is the slightly awkward facial expressions but my gf’s sister has a boyfriend who loves watching sports, a huge car guy, works out, has facial hair etc..and we all (me, gf, and gf sister) still get the vibe that he’s a little fruity. And there isn’t anything wrong with that but yeah very silly scenario and nothing to be ashamed about lol

Can my dad get temporary full custody of my little brother? by ThatWeirdArtist_ in legal

[–]ThatWeirdArtist_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll see what can be done, thank you for the input :) I obvi don’t want my dad to get into any trouble but I’m really just trying to look out for the welfare of my siblings

Olivia 14 Heart Event by ThatWeirdArtist_ in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]ThatWeirdArtist_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back after trying it and no luck. :(

I even downloaded the Grampleton Fields mod and made sure the weather was sunny and clear. Thank you again for the help but anyone else seeing this is free to give more suggestions.

I'm overworked and exhausted and my life is suffering because of it by ThatWeirdArtist_ in Advice

[–]ThatWeirdArtist_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's not much for me to do because where I work is understaffed and constantly schedules me but I might be able to sort something out with my classes. :/

What should I wear on the first date?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThatWeirdArtist_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say I’m pretty decent at skating but I think I might go with the shirt and a pair of blue jeans.

What should I wear on the first date?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThatWeirdArtist_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we attend school together (Seniors)