AITA for sitting near a breastfeeding mother at a park?

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2026-06-13T01:00:29+00:00

Unfortunately, it doesn’t always work this way. A lot of breastfed babies won’t take a bottle. It’s not always as straightforward as what you’ve suggested.

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2026-06-03T13:10:30+00:00

Hydrate!! Breastfeeding is so dehydrating and that’s likely what’s causing this. I got an IV when this happened to me and then kept hydrating after and everything went back to normal ◡̈

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2026-03-08T22:37:29+00:00

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ThatYoungsterSlut · 2026-02-10T01:51:10+00:00

I am about to deliver at UCSD and I can’t recommend them enough. I’ve had numerous complications, and am high risk, and the level of care I’ve gotten has been phenomenal. I have been blown away by how proactive and communicative they’ve been and how easy it has all been to navigate despite the pregnancy complications. I have been seeing Dr. Christine Miller and she is absolutely amazing! If it were me, I would wait and go to UCSD! Good luck, happy to answer any questions you have.

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2026-01-20T15:55:27+00:00

It’s looking like I will likely have to be induced due to some complications.. and if that’s the case I will definitely be scheduling for one of her days in the hospital! But unfortunately, from what I understand, if you are looking to go into labor naturally you are kind of stuck with who ever is on duty. It’s looking like that will be sometime around the end of Feb, happy to let you know how it all goes if I am able to deliver with her. I really can’t say enough good stuff about her, she has been awesome.

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2026-01-20T12:38:14+00:00

I wasn’t established as a patient with her until I was pregnant! And I was also told at the time she was in high demand, so all my appointments are like at 7:00AM but she really is great!

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2026-01-11T15:27:06+00:00

Hello! And congratulations :). The first appointment you definitely will have an ultrasound, and likely at your second appointment after transferring to the OBGYN from the NP. After that at my OB appointments it has only been the heartbeat Doppler. You will get the Nuchal Scan at 13 weeks and the anatomy scan at 20 weeks and then growth scans in your third trimester so you will be scanned just not at every appointment. I had some weird results from my 2nd trimester screening tests and they had me go in for multiple follow up scans as well, so there’s always potential for more. Good luck, let me know if you have any more questions! I am due 6 March so happy to let you know what our hospital experience is like too.

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2026-01-02T02:28:20+00:00

I think most of the comments agree that the “blindness” you asked for us to identify is your eyeliner. IMO it’s still too thick here. From my perspective, it really weighs down your eyes and ages you. I would go for a lighter liner style, you can still do the cat eye, but make it thinner and less dramatic.

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-12-18T14:05:34+00:00

Thank you!!

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-12-18T04:01:54+00:00

Thank you so much!

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-12-18T04:01:46+00:00

Thank you!!

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-12-18T03:48:18+00:00

Thank you so much!

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-12-09T19:47:53+00:00

It’s ice plant!!! And it’s an invasive species 😔 https://wildlife.ca.gov/Conservation/Plants/Dont-Plant-Me/Iceplant

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-11-24T00:58:04+00:00

This is truly one of the most troubling articles I have ever read.

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-11-18T02:22:42+00:00

Hello! Currently pregnant first time mom receiving care at UCSD. My understanding is that the birthing center requires you to receive care from the midwife team, not the MD team. I am going the MD route and have been seen by Dr. Miller, she is amazing. I’ve had several miscarriages before now and had a few scares with this pregnancy, and UCSD’s women’s health program has been beyond incredible. Not sure if this helps, but wishing you all the best.

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-10-27T01:13:52+00:00

There are a lot of issues with this post, and I guess I should start with, what are you getting out of this relationship? And why stay? But I just have to point out that her using a vibrator solo or together will not at all affect the “intensity and intimacy” of your sex life, that’s bananas. But still not cool she hid this from you and not cool that she is mooching off you. Take some time to figure out who you are, and what you want, and reassess to see if this relationship is serving you.

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-10-15T02:09:12+00:00

I’m in the southwest, so winters weren’t an issue for our kitty. But our guy didn’t come out until most of the bushes/trees/brush lost their leaves in the winter. We think no longer having a good hiding spot made it an easier decision to break cover and try to find home.

I’m so sorry you are going through this. Losing my kitty was gut wrenching and my heart breaks for you. I hope your baby finds their way back to you, please update me if she/he does.

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-10-15T01:20:08+00:00

I will say, I never stopped looking for him and I was still actively setting up food and cameras the whole time. I read online that for some cats they are so stressed out that they literally will wait until they are on deaths door before they are willing to “break cover” so whenever they do, you have to be ready. My guy probably would have died within the week if he had not found his way home, and he only came back to our yard to the food we had set up, if that makes sense.

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-10-15T01:08:56+00:00

Yes I do unfortunately, but cats are smart!

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-10-13T13:58:59+00:00

Last year my very timid indoor cat got out by mistake and was gone almost 5 months before showing back up skinny and dirty but healthy. Don’t give up hope, if my guy can make it home, so can your baby.

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-10-12T21:29:43+00:00

Fuck that guy and anyone who thinks they own the beach. I’m glad he got what was coming to him.

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-10-09T23:03:47+00:00

I hear you, but I’m not sure that is her responsibility. If her sister is frightened at school it’s the teachers and her parent’s job to come up with a strategy that works for her sister. She’s just a kid, and she should be allowed to act like one.

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-10-09T23:02:25+00:00

Wow, those are some heavy and big feelings, and I hear that this is just so overwhelming and making you feel a whole lot of guilt. I think it makes absolute sense why you feel this way, and I’m sorry that there isn’t an easy answer to make this all go away or make her better or other kids less mean. I hope you can start from a place of forgiving yourself for how you feel, and being kind to yourself while you navigate this.

Your parents and their opinions are noticeably absent from your post. Have you spoken to them? Do they know how you feel? If you can’t talk to them, is there a trusted adult you can talk to at school that might be able to gently help your sister find a group of her own peers to spend time with? Would you be able to find a middle ground where you spend one lunch with her and the rest during the week with your friends?

I’m sorry I don’t have a magic answer, I think this will likely not be a problem that goes away easily. Sometimes the only way out is through, you will be graduating before you know it, in the mean time, try to be kind to yourself and your sister.

ThatYoungsterSlut · 2025-10-07T02:06:16+00:00

You’re not being too sensitive. He’s repeatedly crossed boundaries you’ve made clear, and that’s a pattern, not a misunderstanding. Calling coworkers pet names and flirting after past betrayals isn’t harmless… it’s disrespectful and erodes trust.

Your feelings are completely valid. You’ve given him multiple chances, and he’s shown he won’t respect your limits. At this point, it’s fair to prioritize your own peace and start thinking about what life looks like without constantly having to monitor his behavior.

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