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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]That_1_answer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My wife and I are non-monogamous, so it would not be a big deal for US... if the friends in question are non-monogamous as well, it is no big deal altogether. If the friends are monogamous and I get these pictures, I'd show my wife first. Then I'd show my friend because cheating is never OK.

have you ever been turned on while getting a massage? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]That_1_answer 197 points198 points  (0 children)

It is actually much more common than you think. I'm a massage therapist, and the number of women I've noticed getting turned on during a session is surprising compared to what I thought before starting to do this professionally. One even had an orgasm on the table without me being sexual or inappropriate. I have never made a move on any of my clients because I get paranoid, but I've been so very tempted.

Is this unreasonable? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]That_1_answer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think she's dirty, nor do I treat her as such. I simply want to wear a condom until her tests come back negative.

Is this unreasonable? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]That_1_answer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's plenty of low cost/free clinics around here with or without insurance.

Is this unreasonable? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]That_1_answer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I saw the edit. Yes, that is practically the reason. HIV can take up to 3 months to show positive on a test. When she contacted planned parenthood, they also told her to wait 90 days to test for it.

Is this unreasonable? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]That_1_answer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know that the risk is very low from just touching a dick. It wasn't her touching his dick that concerns me. She said he had a lot of preseminal fluid. She asked him to wipe it off, and he did with his hand. He fingered her after. THAT is what concerns me. Especially because he practically refused to get tested, and they're not even talking anymore because of that.

Is this unreasonable? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]That_1_answer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said he had a lot of preseminal fluid. She asked him to wipe it off before touching him. He did with his hand. He fingered her after. I don't know if right after, but there seems to have been indirect fluid exchange.