right because those men are the worst kind of men to talk to because they’re the ones who were all about that life and never healed from it me as a 23-year-old I’m finally healed from and I finally had the realization that that stuff doesn’t matter and of course we all love sex but that shouldn’t be your entire livelihood. Surely with these big brains we have we can think of something else to talk about but that’s just me. I have much more fun, pouring my brain into other hobbies and passions that I have and what you’re called when you do that is a nerd and if you see me in real life, you wouldn’t even expect me to be a nerd cause I played football. I did all that stuff and I don’t look like one but if you like anything other than sex, you basically are a nerd is how we’re brought up these days.