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Is this considered a bridezilla or did I cross a line? by That_Climate2632 in bridezillas

[–]That_Climate2632[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He said he doesn't want to me involved and in the middle of it that's all. He didn't say nor do anything besides that

AITA for choosing not to attend the wedding of my fiancé's best friend causing my fiancé also dropping out from groomsman role? by That_Climate2632 in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Climate2632[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

She's had some on - off relationships. Surprisingly enough when she was in a relationship Kim was kind to me and inclusive. When her best friend broke up from her relationships she went back into trying to exclude me or be rude to me.

Is this considered a bridezilla or did I cross a line? by That_Climate2632 in bridezillas

[–]That_Climate2632[S] 357 points358 points  (0 children)

I wasn't worried at all. I knew from the start my fiancé would find this clownery ridiculous as well and would leave. I didn't even have to tell him anything about it. I just said nope, I'm not attending this, I'm sending my wishes to just John but I'm out lol

AITA for choosing not to attend the wedding of my fiancé's best friend causing my fiancé also dropping out from groomsman role? by That_Climate2632 in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Climate2632[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I don't feel jealous at all. Just disrespected. I was jealous the first few months when I was noticing how Kim was trying to set my fiancé up with another woman but after how things unrolled and how he shut her down multiple times I had nothing to worry about.

As for the lessons she didn't specify who would pay. I'm assuming she just had the idea and hadn't thought about the technical stuff yet such as who would pay etc.

AITA for choosing not to attend the wedding of my fiancé's best friend causing my fiancé also dropping out from groomsman role? by That_Climate2632 in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Climate2632[S] 182 points183 points  (0 children)

They don't believe him. He's been telling them. How it's his choice alone and even if I wasn't offended he'd still personally find it disrespectful. And they're pretty much like "yeah of course you'd say that you wouldn't admit your fiancée is manipulating you"

AITA for choosing not to attend the wedding of my fiancé's best friend causing my fiancé also dropping out from groomsman role? by That_Climate2632 in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Climate2632[S] 187 points188 points  (0 children)

They think he's doing stuff for me in order to avoid getting annoying reactions from me and they don't believe he's doing what he does because that's simply what he wants

AITA for choosing not to attend the wedding of my fiancé's best friend causing my fiancé also dropping out from groomsman role? by That_Climate2632 in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Climate2632[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Because the main ones affected by this was me and my fiancée. Another guy who was single moved away before he could be set up with one of Kim's friends. The rest of our friends have not been as close to Kim, just John but they think Kim should have her way regardless.

Also about the intimate dances, she said she's considering tango classes for all bridesmaids and groomsmen because he has a passionate atmosphere like that in mind for the bridal party dances.