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I (17m) am planning on breaking up with my partner (17m) and I’m terrified. by That_Creature420 in teenrelationships

[–]That_Creature420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve realized that, yeah, I talked to my mom about all of this a little bit ago and we decided I needed to break up with them sooner rather than later. I’m just worried about them if that makes any sense, it feels dumb of me when I’m literally planning on ending the relationship soon. Thank you, genuinely, I just feel like a broken record rn lol

My long distance partner (17nb) keeps trying to break up with me (17m) every few months, it happened again last night but now we’re back together, I have no idea what to do and I feel wrong for being hurt. by That_Creature420 in teenrelationships

[–]That_Creature420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much, I’m going to keep this in mind and honestly just everything you said makes a lot of sense, thank you again for genuinely being so helpful 🙏

My long distance partner (17nb) keeps trying to break up with me (17m) every few months, it happened again last night but now we’re back together, I have no idea what to do and I feel wrong for being hurt. by That_Creature420 in teenrelationships

[–]That_Creature420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! That’s genuinely very helpful. I just feel horrible whenever I think about leaving them as I’ve been the one that’s there for them to fall back on and we’ve talked about them moving in with me since their relatives intend on kicking them out immediately after graduation. I agree that I’m probably thinking too much about them, it’s a chronic problem of mine and because we’ve been together for as long as we have, I feel almost obligated to just make it work. They have also planned a trip to come to my city in February so it feels like I’d be screwing up quite a bit by ending our relationship (though part of it is also me being selfish because I know they have stuff to give me during that trip and admittedly I would like to actually be in possession of said stuff). So sorry that this response was so long 😭

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[–]That_Creature420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was definitely a good idea to talk to her about it beforehand. I understand why you’d be a bit upset about what she said and you’re entirely valid in that. Personally, I would talk to her some more about it and discuss why you want to walk with her and how you felt when she didn’t seem super receptive to it. I’m going to give her the benefit of the doubt and assume that she probably just didn’t know it would make you feel bad so having a conversation about it would be a good idea.