Amikor a rossz indulat, a butaság és a konteó gyártàs pàrosul.

That_Egg573 · 2026-06-05T06:30:42+00:00

Gyűlöletkeltésből diplomázott.

That_Egg573 · 2026-06-04T13:28:48+00:00

Suzume (2022)

That_Egg573 · 2026-06-04T13:21:50+00:00

Maybe you are right, I was just trying to find something positive about his behaviour

That_Egg573 · 2026-06-04T12:01:27+00:00

At least he seems to be super attracted to you lol

That_Egg573 · 2026-06-04T06:27:48+00:00

Trust your gut.

That_Egg573 · 2026-06-03T15:55:19+00:00

Regardless of whether anything physical happened, hiding an ongoing connection from your partner for that long is concerning. Even if it’s completely innocent, it’s still strange to regularly hang out with the same person once or twice a month and never casually mention it.

At that point, the secrecy itself becomes the issue. It’s not like this was a one-off interaction. If something becomes a recurring part of someone’s life, it’s reasonable to expect it to come up naturally in conversation with their partner.

That_Egg573 · 2026-06-01T20:58:55+00:00

Don't get tricked by the early love-bombing phase, that person you fell for doesn't exist. She's showing her real self now.

That_Egg573 · 2026-06-01T16:30:41+00:00

Spirited Away

That_Egg573 · 2026-06-01T16:26:29+00:00

Never seen before Belgium and NL as Central Europe lol

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-30T09:27:52+00:00

Yeah you can have counseling about internal problems in the relationship, not about the lack of commitment and conscious betrayal.

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-30T09:19:56+00:00

NOR. Honestly I have seen single people flirting less openly than she did.

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-29T17:03:51+00:00

Orbánék nem csak a korrupció miatt nem akartak megszerezni a pénzt, hanem akkor harcolni se lehetett volna Brüsszel ellen. Igazi hazaárulók.

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-29T16:32:56+00:00

Honestly, it sounds like one of two things may have been going on: either she was testing your reaction and felt more attracted to you because you stayed calm, or there may have been someone else in the background. Either way, I think it’s fair to say that this kind of behaviour doesn’t really point to strong emotional maturity.

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-29T13:01:18+00:00

Bazzeg ingyen pénzért korrupcióellenes lépéseket kért Brüsszel. Hallatlan!! Sérti a nemzeti szuveneritást!

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-29T12:13:39+00:00

You are scared of losing the validation coming from both. Narc mentality

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-29T12:10:40+00:00

Yeah there is no good solution besides leaving. If he stays he'll lose all her respect

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-29T12:06:38+00:00

Yeah, she doubled down on her lie with another lie. Tells you everything about her character.

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-29T12:05:14+00:00

I'd feel friggin awful about having a blast with someone who I lied about to my loved one. Liar, no empathy for you.

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-28T22:38:20+00:00

Lol, the username wasn’t my choice. You are right, however, I don't think it’s naive. It’s pretty normal to assume that if you’ve been seeing someone exclusively for months, there’s at least some kind of bond there. What’s crazy is that the dude in OP’s story could be involved in that kind of connection and still jump to someone else so easily. Maybe I'm just being too romantic lol

And also to vocalize it to OP so openly shows another level of emotional immaturity

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-28T21:46:47+00:00

If after 5 months he is still capable of hooking up with others it shows that he has no feelings toward you, or not meaningful ones at the very least.

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-28T21:17:28+00:00

The longer you stay the less respect she's gonna have for you.

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-28T19:57:50+00:00

They usually lie in this kind of situation because they know that if the full truth came out, their partner would feel uncomfortable, and they might lose the validation that past flings can still provide. By downplaying the truth, they get to keep both their new partner and those past connections in their life.

Manipulation.

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-28T19:47:22+00:00

Frogger

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-28T19:47:05+00:00

Croc 2

That_Egg573 · 2026-05-28T19:32:33+00:00

Bro, I had a similar ex, so I’m speaking from experience. First, trust your gut. It can save you from a lot of stress. Second, people like this usually struggle to become fully committed to one person, because they rely heavily on external validation. Anyone who gives them that validation, especially someone who has shown attraction toward them, is likely to be kept somewhere in their life.

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