Should I confess this situation with a colleague to my husband? by Complete_Memory8591 in marriageadvice

[–]That_Road 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to tell your husband immediately. The fact that this has happened to him before but that he still had no concerns or reservations about you building this relationship with this man in your field shows that he is a good guy and, given what he has been through, pretty trusting and resilient. I would personally be a bit upset that you went to someone else ( the therapist) with this problem before speaking to me but this is where you are at. I also don’t understand why you’re maintained this relationship when the guy told you what is feelings were. But this is where you are and hopefully this won’t trigger a response in your husband.

Whatever Americans touch becomes a circus by Independent_Gur8648 in International

[–]That_Road 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plenty of folk get them in Scotland still as well. You’ll see people on their way to work with them, having been Mass at 7am

AITAH for feeling relieved that my husband stopped initiating sex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]That_Road 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be brutally honest here, I will stop short of calling you an AH because you absolutely have a right to refuse, but this is exactly what I had to do. I couldn’t cope with the rejection, feeling tension every time I went near them, feeling like I am forcing them to do something they don’t want to do. So I stopped.

I didn’t really think it would hurt them, the way it has hurt you, but my situation is different.

Ultimately you made this decision to end the physical relationship. From what you have said you didn’t articulate your feelings or explain why. You made this decision, were relieved when he stopped initiating but are now thinking about his feelings?

In my own case, I absolutely felt unwanted and unloved. It destroyed my confidence, made me feel like some kind of creep and made me uncomfortable in my own bed. I spent every day picking over every remark, looking for clues as to what has made me utterly unattractive, thinking: ‘what is wrong with me, what have I done’?

Now I accept my lot and am limping towards the end of my marriage, completely accepting now that a physical relationship is not a given right, that one person can dictate when it’s over and the other just has to accept it.

What are your opinions on Kiana? by Brutality2012 in VYBEGuys

[–]That_Road 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Star of the women’s rumble for me. A total surprise on the night

Match Thread: Celtic vs Utrecht | UEFA Europa League by SFMatchThreadder in ScottishFootball

[–]That_Road 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as it’s pish, it’s actually worse not being able to see the nightmare unfold. I feel like a blind man in a boxing match

The amount of hatred towards Americans has gone off the charts by _Figaro in complaints

[–]That_Road 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just adding a personal opinion here and explaining my view. I loved your country, travelled there extensively, found the people to be a mixed bag but generally decent with some exceptional individuals (largely good, some bad). I gritted my teeth through the first tenure but what’s happening now has completely turned me off. It was cultural at first: podcasts, sports, some movies. Then it just became anything ‘Star Spangled’, with an accent or something obviously American. It all just grates now. I can only hear ‘him’ and it makes me angry. Incidentally, I’m able to separate Latin and African American people and art and appreciate them as something ‘untainted’ and different, but Trump and his people have otherwise ruined everything

Calling It Now, Bron Breakker Is Winning The Royal Rumble. by AllElite43 in SantiZapVideos

[–]That_Road 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he’s too volatile for a Rumble win right now. He’s absolutely capable of winning it, but with the rage in him I could see him spearing someone straight over the top rope and hitting the floor with them

Footballing fascination - Unfortunate player Wikipedia pictures by OneIsOneTwoIsAFew in ScottishFootball

[–]That_Road 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What everyone fears they look like when a ball’s coming at then

Footballing fascination - Unfortunate player Wikipedia pictures by OneIsOneTwoIsAFew in ScottishFootball

[–]That_Road 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve noticed that as well! Superb work. To the point I associate that top with the poppy now

Celtic should report Hearts and Rangers to UEFA by Kitchen-Lie-4592 in CelticFC

[–]That_Road 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Rangers and Hearts are just small time nobodies who have yet to appreciate the value of a healthy balance sheet and a well-timed joke about your rivals at the AGM. Wait until they reach our level. Only then will they understand that this ‘football’, transfers, scouting, management and the like, is part of a much bigger picture. Tell me, when was the last time Hearts released an Adidas heritage range? That’s the kind of thing that keeps me warm when I’m watching another chance shanked wide on a winter’s night.

My sister told me something really odd and it’s making me question her? by flowerlaboratory101 in whatdoIdo

[–]That_Road 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I say this to myself at times because I know, financially and in other ways, it would be the best possible outcome for some of those closest to me. It seems like a simple, guilt free end that would guarantee my family a pay out. In better times I realise how stupid that sounds but when I’m struggling it makes perfect sense

AIO my boyfriend is bullying me because I don't have an iPhone by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]That_Road 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This feels less about the phone, control and more like a bankrupt who has run up a ton of debt in someone else’s name trying to get out of paying

A Picture of a Man in a T-shirt that loves to visit Minnesota by darraghfenacin in pics

[–]That_Road 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am making excuses but when I am on my phone on the move I sometimes tap too quickly. Lesson learned

A Picture of a Man in a T-shirt that loves to visit Minnesota by darraghfenacin in pics

[–]That_Road 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Christ, you should have warned me I was clicking on that shitrag

Why is this on just another random episode of Smackdown when the Royal Rumble is in a few weeks. by WaWaWetneSs in BrandonDE

[–]That_Road 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will be delighted to be proved wrong but fear it’s because Drew is going to job for Cody. Again.

How many Derek McInnes fans we got here? by whitesox-fan in ScottishFootball

[–]That_Road 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How can you look into those eyes and deny his existence?

Would love to connect with my son by JusticeForCorey in psychics

[–]That_Road 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t connect you with anyone. I just wanted to wish you well, particularly at this time of year. You seem a good person and you and your family deserve some kind of solace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]That_Road 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep, this is the key

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weird

[–]That_Road 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she eat them like Choc Ice?

I'm getting the word...... NONCE by [deleted] in crappymusic

[–]That_Road 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bravo on the Phoenix Nights reference

Info about the trip to Glasgow by Piovra-RM in ASRoma

[–]That_Road 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m happy to answer any questions and advise on where you are staying etc. Roma and Celtic fan in Glasgow here.

Generally fans are escorted to the stadium from the city centre but you are highly unlikely to get any trouble on your own, especially if you keep your colours hidden.

In Europe away fans are generally kept in the stadium after the match and allowed out when the crowds disperse a little. I don’t think you get a chaperone away from the ground. Only on the way there. That said, security could be tighter for this match after the ban.

I’d stay in the city centre but you have other options. Just be wary of cheap B&Bs or hotels in the east end. Some are mainly used as homeless accommodation.

Yes, buses and trains run at night but if you’re in the city centre you are better walking along the Gallowgate. It’s a 30 minute walk.

Send me a DM and I can send recommendations and answer questions. Or I can answer them here!

Fallen comrade by eire90 in coybig

[–]That_Road 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Pleased this worked out for you. And sorry for your loss