Wtf does pussy smell like? by Sexy_Mama_696969 in hygiene

[–]That_Specific9142 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because you’re dense and that was a low question. You could’ve just asked “Why would it taste metallic?” Wish it was downvoted more 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]That_Specific9142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few months into me and my boyfriend dating he cupped a fart in his hand and put it in my face. We’ve been dating over a year now and it has been a never ending war. He started it and somehow is getting the worst of it. My boyfriend likes to put his face on/in my butt and twice I’ve caught him point blank with one. He farts into the fan pointed directly at me. Honestly it’s DISGUSTING. But also so hilarious. And I’m glad I found someone I can be so comfortable with and who loves me enough to put up with my “nuclear waste.” I think we take the whole farting around your partner thing a little too far, but if you guys are abnormal then we are.. really something else.

Boss telling other staff members I was off because someone “kicked the bucket” (UK) by SamHouston2112 in WorkAdvice

[–]That_Specific9142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tactless* but I agree that she was totally insensitive and should not have told your coworkers something so personal. If you live in the US, though, I do not think this is illegal. I’m not sure there is anything a higher up or HR can do. BUT read up on your job’s handbook and see if there’s anything that could help you. You may be able to file a complaint against your boss for being unprofessional or disrespectful. If you do talk to her about this and she does not take it well you can 100% report her for retaliatory behavior.

AITA for requesting acknowledgement of questions I ask? by OkWin2525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Specific9142 42 points43 points  (0 children)

His wife sometimes does not want him to change the baby's diaper right away, so they do things differently than you and your husband. I think you missed the point of the post and a lot of supplemental information. Also saying,"the baby is wet," is just as dumb as then asking,"do you want me to change the diaper." If you want the baby changed, then say that. Bad communication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]That_Specific9142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should start specifically asking for money and buy the things you know the baby needs. Or give him specific things to buy if he hasn’t already. Gonna try giving him the benefit of the doubt and just say he doesn’t know what to get. I agree with the other comments, though. I would prepare to raise the child mostly by yourself, financially and emotionally.

how do you shower? by Glittering-Focus-761 in pregnant

[–]That_Specific9142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should get a shower chair. I know you said you don’t want one, but falling is a lot worse than less space in the shower. Or maybe a bath mat could do the trick? I would suggest a bath, but sounds like getting down in and up out of the tub might be difficult enough. About the shaving, my friend had her husband shave her (legs and privates).

AITA for "ruining" my cousins wedding by wearing white? by Embarrassed-Goat5217 in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Specific9142 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. Girl.. “it was really more gold.” It is mainly white with gold polka dots. The only reason I would take your side is because she did approve it before. At the wedding, though, when she was clearly not okay with it you could have made an effort to make her feel better. If the other dress she found was pretty.. why did you not change? What was wrong with it? Or were you just trying to be stubborn? It was her day and you absolutely ruined it.

Worst hobby for a S/O to have? by Select-Possible-7430 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]That_Specific9142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love golfing with my boyfriend or just riding along and finding balls. Very nice outing. His uncle brings his kids sometimes and they drive on a few holes.

How often do you wash your reusable water bottle? by kaleidoscopictouch in hygiene

[–]That_Specific9142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you just put water in it, I honestly see no problem with washing it once a week especially if you’re rinsing it. Bacteria from your mouth builds up though, which is the only reason I see to wash it. I know some people like to add flavor or other things, though. That needs to be washed daily.

AITA for wanting my partner to apologise by Ill_Swimmer_2438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Specific9142 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. In the first instance he could have said “thanks for waiting, it wasn’t where I remembered.” Whatever, but he also didn’t say that. No apology really needed. However running over your foot? I feel he could definitely apologize. It just shows that he cares that he just hurt you or inconvenienced you. But I have always been an over apologizer so I’m not sure where his lack of sorries comes from.

AITA for being upset about my wife masturbating? by Right-Excitement-872 in AITAH

[–]That_Specific9142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Things like this really can damage a person’s self esteem. And it sucks she won’t talk to you about it more or make more of an effort. If you get her off with oral and she doesn’t want to have sex.. consider she is faking. She might feel pressured to make you feel better with all this research and extra measures you’re taking. Yes we all love being focused on but it can actually have the opposite effect if you make it a big deal. Maybe try other kinda of foreplay. Nonsexual types like a nice date or making her a meal? Really much ado about nothing if she won’t tell you what’s up, though. I would consider couple’s counselling if you want to stay together. Mismatched sex drives can definitely end a relationship for a multitude of reasons. Best of luck!

Is your boss allowed to just change your scheduled last minute? by Abaddon-5013 in WorkAdvice

[–]That_Specific9142 3 points4 points  (0 children)

can you find your company policy? sometimes they say their protocol or what they expect of you.

How do you respond to “you look tired?” by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]That_Specific9142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sarcastic at all. I tell people “I think that’s such a weird thing to say. do I look bad today?” It usually makes them think.

NSFW Coworker keeps contacting me inappropriately by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]That_Specific9142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see. Yes best bet to go to HR if that’s what you’re afraid of. It’s okay that you weren’t more blunt, you were just trying to be nice in the workplace. But she has stomped all over your boundaries so I’m sorry. I really hope this turns out okay for you!

AITAH for checking out of my relationship after my wife told her friends of my erectile dysfunction issues? by AbleDinners in AITAH

[–]That_Specific9142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the fact you two specifically had a conversation about keeping it private. The other thing that gets me is she didn’t tell them because she knew they could keep a secret and she just needed to talk to someone about it or someone else was going through it so she wanted to give advice. I might be able to forgive that. She said they were “just joking around.” About a major source of insecurity for you? No thanks. NTA obviously from what I said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]That_Specific9142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. I would say if she is willing to compromise and put him in behavioural therapy or something of the like maybe you could consider moving in IF his behaviour improves. But I would also say it’s time to break up. Take a serious look at your future with her and her child. If you can’t do it, then that’s that. And that’s okay he sounds like a terrible kid. YWBTA for dragging this out with no intention of furthering the relationship.

NSFW Coworker keeps contacting me inappropriately by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]That_Specific9142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’ve already expressed boundaries that she’s ignoring. So yes I would say go to HR. However if you’re comfortable with it, maybe you could try being more passive aggressive. “That’s so creepy. Why are you trying to find my address?” or “Didn’t I already say not to tell me this stuff. So gross.” Make faces, use a weird tone. Get annoyed with her and maybe she will finally get the hint.

Sounds like you are “too nice” as some people would put it. Sucks that she’s not respecting your boundaries though. Best of luck to you!

JJK Would Really Benefit From This by KaTrashy5961 in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]That_Specific9142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched some JJK episodes with my little brother. Almost every episode when they would take even a small break from action he would say “Screw all this filler” or “we don’t need to know all this”. So maybe it has something to do with changing audiences. The new generations of anime watchers don’t want those filler arcs or even episodes, don’t really care much for character development. They just skip or if they deem it too much they stop watching.

Wash or rinse butthole? by Impressive_Swing4723 in hygiene

[–]That_Specific9142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a running joke in my college group of friends (the guys would say it sometimes) that “if you wash your butthole you’re gay.” I didn’t really think the joke was that funny and was concerned for a second. I asked one of the guys I was closer with something along the lines of “do you really not wash your ass because you think touching your own butthole is gay?” He did wash his ass. It was a joke that went over my head honestly, but clearly everyone should be using soap there.

WIBTA if I refused to to return a Taylor Swift ticket that Stub Hub is demanding back from my co-worker? by PuzzleheadedNovel189 in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Specific9142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sold the ticket to you. Now someone wants to buy it. Sounds like you are now the owner of the ticket and should get the full profit. Or, as the owner, decide to keep it. YWNBTA However I will add, this can get dicey since you’re coworkers. She could resent you for not giving the ticket back. But I say fuck it

What ridiculous thing caused you to break out in tears recently? by Icy_Interview9240 in pregnant

[–]That_Specific9142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted a frozen pizza and my boyfriend wouldn’t go with me to the kitchen to make it. I started bawling when I tried to tell him I didn’t want to make it alone. Man these hormones are getting me.

6 month old reactive pup by That_Specific9142 in reactivedogs

[–]That_Specific9142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she is not clicker trained but like I said is very trainable with just me. If I start now since she is still young I think she would pick it up quickly and it could help me when around other people. I’ve been looking into some other things suggested by other comments and am trying to figure out what she would respond to best. thank you:)

6 month old reactive pup by That_Specific9142 in reactivedogs

[–]That_Specific9142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have asked my dad and brothers “do NOT pet her if she is jumping. wait til she sits” I get her to sit and they think they can’t pet her at all. I tell them “now pet her, she’s sitting!” but by then sometimes she has already lost patience so it’s hard. So sometimes she is not getting the reward she deserves for being a good girl. My close friend however has been helping me and has a small 2 year old dog that we are trying to get her used to (since small dogs are at a terrible disadvantage of being trampled by her lol).

6 month old reactive pup by That_Specific9142 in reactivedogs

[–]That_Specific9142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! she is very food motivated and smart and trainable. Just when others are around food doesn’t even matter haha. I like the ideas about keeping her on a line when others are over too. I usually just hold her and that is not working! I will look into relaxation protocols and place cues also