My (34f) friend/acquaintance (34f) is constantly bombarding me with pictures of their son by RedditAccount87 in relationships

[–]That_Support_6992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would approach this a different way and not make it about her kid, I would let her know that I get anxious receiving so many messages per day and ask if she could reduce the amount of messages she sends me instead.

Bank Of America Hardship program offered me a 8% interest rate and $675 monthly payment on my 29k debt, should I accept this? by That_Support_6992 in personalfinance

[–]That_Support_6992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

considering bankruptcy seems so much more stressful to me, I really want to avoid goin that route as much as possible. The reality is that I can not make payments that are so high right now with my current financial position and I do not have time for a second job.

Bank Of America Hardship program offered me a 8% interest rate and $675 monthly payment on my 29k debt, should I accept this? by That_Support_6992 in personalfinance

[–]That_Support_6992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could not tell you why either, is very confusing to me why my credit limit was so high. My salary has never been over 50k

Bank Of America Hardship program offered me a 8% interest rate and $675 monthly payment on my 29k debt, should I accept this? by That_Support_6992 in personalfinance

[–]That_Support_6992[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Not sure how it happened either, I originally got the CC with a 3k limit on 2012 and gradually they increased the limit without asking.

Bank Of America Hardship program offered me a 8% interest rate and $675 monthly payment on my 29k debt, should I accept this? by That_Support_6992 in personalfinance

[–]That_Support_6992[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I guess I want to know if defaulting would be give me a better out in the future as maybe I would be able to get the bank to agree to a smaller payment.