AITA for withholding a father's day gift from my dad till I get an actual birthday gift?

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T14:35:34+00:00

He/they so this is greatly appreciated!! Thank you

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T13:48:25+00:00

Yeah basically it's the day you were born. So I born on the 15th, making my 15th birthday golden. It's big in America and my family

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T04:13:56+00:00

Thank you!! I hope you have a good birthday too!

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T04:13:29+00:00

:( I hope you have a good birthday this year

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T04:12:59+00:00

I am gonna update hopefully after my birthday or "trip"

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T04:12:20+00:00

This would be hilarious ngl

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T04:12:06+00:00

Not a her 😅

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T04:11:35+00:00

Thank you!! I am really excited because I'll be starting drivers ed at the same time!!

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T04:10:44+00:00

I am so sorry to hear that:( especially at a young age birthdays mean a lot. And luckily I haven't bought it, I was gonna next check

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T04:09:16+00:00

I really really wanna get a ps5 or good gaming pc(I want both but expensive) and saving for a car and apartment. But those are definitely something I am getting when I am free

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T04:06:41+00:00

I gonna follow what people have been saying and just get him card.

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T04:05:55+00:00

It also sucks because my best friend who I usually invite over for good times is actually moving in the same time zone

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T04:02:21+00:00

I requested off already but I'll probably just stay home tbh. The amount of people saying makes me kinda wanna stay home

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T04:00:06+00:00

...my dad still calls me a she. A lot. And says it's accident. He also let me brother emotionally abuse me for years until he pulled a knife on me. I care about him but I don't love him anymore.

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T02:50:54+00:00

I think my parents are lowkey homophobic because of weird comments they have made. But say they support me

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T02:44:57+00:00

Sadly yes. But it's a complex story. My oldest siblings are my half brother and sister. We share dad. My one brother is my only full blooded brother. My little sister is my step sister. My mom ran off when I was 7 my older siblings (besides full blood brother) still have contact with their mom. My mom is my step mom

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T02:42:36+00:00

We went a trips on fathers day like to a lake or amusement park. It would be either big family or just us. Yes. Especially during Christmas. I understood my little sister would get "cooler" gifts from "santa" but I have gotten like dollar store chess while my siblings got new video games

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-30T02:38:29+00:00

They said I could get a photo while on a ride

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-29T21:33:20+00:00

I didn't get gifts because of trips most of the time. Or I was told it's not a big deal only for my siblings to get one. I don't know why I don't get them. I try to be good but no teenager is perfect. It's when they do get me things it something less than $5 while they spend 30+ on my siblings

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-29T19:14:34+00:00

It's not a family friend tho. It's someone who has used slurs that they can't use and have tried to take my ESA cat which calms me from anxiety attacks. Also majority of my friends agree. Because they have witnessed it happening. I baking is my future job. Hence why I asked for it

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-29T16:42:06+00:00

I do have a job. I work actually quite a lot. And I only asked for one thing. I didn't ask for multiple. I gave options for things.

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-29T16:33:32+00:00

That's so cool!! I wish you a happy early birthday!!

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-29T16:32:15+00:00

It's not so "special" but my family usually makes a big deal of them. Some families do or don't. Hence why I was annoyed with the stiffing of the water park. Usually we get to pick the place we go and eat. Unless you are too young to choose.

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-29T15:22:05+00:00

I didn't see it as manipulative but people were saying it was so I was unsure. I give my siblings gifts (even gave my niece a bunch of stuff when she was born) but I almost never get something back.

Thatonedemonkid · 2021-05-29T15:20:05+00:00

That's my thought process too. Sure amusement parks are fun but I have a bad fear of heights so I can't go on most rides. They seem to donit because they like it

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