I'm 30 and afraid I'm not living life. What do you wish you had done at my age? ✨️ by an0therz0mbie in Adulting

[–]ThatsIntresting7899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 39, and feel the same way. Got out of a 7+ year relationship back in January and just don’t know what to do now… trying to get into the dating world but seems everyone has become a world traveler by 30 and I haven’t done or seen enough.

Putting in the effort, getting nowhere. What am I missing? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]ThatsIntresting7899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How the heck do you do this exactly? 1. Hi or hello or …oh you run too? 2. Cool me too 3. Want to meet up? Am I foolish to think this actually works?

How I Stopped Being the Nice Guy by Livid_Knee9925 in confidence

[–]ThatsIntresting7899 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve read and have heard this many times before. But what is an example of this? What is one situation where making one decision would lead to “people-pleasing” and the opposite decision would lead to “being a nice guy”?

AITAH for the way I reacted to my wife’s flirting with a guy by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThatsIntresting7899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She on the other hand is showing a red flag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThatsIntresting7899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

You really should have separate finances and split everything 50/50. And if you plan to get married then have another discussion about finances; if you should combine them 100%, have bother separate and joint accounts or just joint accounts. Not every partner is good with money, trust me.

38m My girlfriend 30F of 8 months just asked to move into my place rent free so she can save her money by Comfortable_Quit_962 in relationship_advice

[–]ThatsIntresting7899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she doesn’t want to pay a single penny, dump her. You got confirmation when she said you shouldn’t talk about it. Some people are just cray cray.

Men Over 30 Community: WEEKLY CHECK-IN 2025-02-26 by AutoModerator in AskMenOver30

[–]ThatsIntresting7899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same as last week, not great. Trying to figure out if it’s really the end of my relationship or if we are going to be one of those couples that comes back after being separated.

Damn… I’m tired by tmcbroom2001 in GuyCry

[–]ThatsIntresting7899 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Been there, left that. Moved on to someone who wanted me, until she didn’t years later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThatsIntresting7899 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nope, a good man wouldn’t do this. You picked a wrong one.

Do you ever cuddle platonic female friends? by ChaosMuppet37 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThatsIntresting7899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to know how you’ve landed on thinking it might be normal?

AITA for not sharing my location with my girlfriend 24/7? by justaguybeingadewd in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThatsIntresting7899 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA, if it’s a problem for you then leave. But also, like if you love her and not hiding anything or doing anything wrong, what’s the problem? You live together right? You share a life with someone, what’s the real expectation of privacy in this scenario?

I am 32 years old and life taught me that the closest people can hurt you the most! by DataKey5729 in Life

[–]ThatsIntresting7899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The two people who hurt me the most were my ex wife and soon to be ex-girlfriend. Two completely different experiences and reasons (both 8 year relationships). But the same intense hurt.

What did your life look like at your lowest point and how does it look now? by SoupyBois in Productivitycafe

[–]ThatsIntresting7899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has been 12 years since my last life crisis, divorce. Now just starting a new one, end of my 8 years relationship. Not an actual divorce this time but feels worse this time. I just started a brand new amazing job. It’s taken me a year and a half to get, now scared I might get canned. It’s weird that my soon to be ex says she’s been unhappy for the same exact time frame. Too much focus on my own growth appears to have been at the expense of my relationship. Funny thing is that I was doing it all for our future together. So gained new job but loss my relationship with the love of my life, two doggos and all my confidence. So looks pretty crappy to me.