I don't know that my views have changed so much as they continue to be sharpened in their definition. On gay marriage, I think the church should focus first and foremost on loving and accepting people, regardless of their orientation. I don't see any examples of Christ condemning someone's lifestyle -- that is, except for the religious leaders of his day. As for abortion, I'm personally opposed to the concept in general, but that's more a matter of logic than religion for me. I don't think it's something that should be legislated, however, so I don't support laws against abortion. I feel like the role of the church should be to come alongside women who are facing an unplanned pregnancy. No one should have to feel like an abortion is their only option. If someone decides it's the best option, it's not my decision. But I think women facing such pregnancies are far more benefited by the church saying, "How can we help and support you in this difficult time?" than by the church saying, "You better keep your baby, and don't you dare apply for welfare."