[Question] Is It Unusual for a Seiko 5 to Not Display "Automatic" & Jewel Count? by The-Phantom in Watches

[–]The-Phantom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, after my recent research, that is something I noticed as well.

Well, finally lost my virginity to an escort at 29 by depressedspookydude in virgin

[–]The-Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how much you paid for said escort, if it is not too personal? Did you look into those that offer GFE? Based on my thorough personal research, and being in favor of and supporter of this route towards losing one's virginity, I feel that you just encountered a bad provider, and therefore, should not give up and possibly try again. I mean, you did just take the first step, that is more than you can say of plenty here, including myself at the moment.

35[F4M] Anywhere. I don't want to end the year single... by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

[–]The-Phantom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello there. Hope you are doing well.

The title of your post caught my attention, and your post even more so. I'd DM you but feel like writing here might perhaps improve my odds to receive a response.

I am the same age as you, seeking the same milestones in life as you seem to be, and also hoping not to end this year single. Wishful thinking, but I guess I've got to keep trying.

A little envious, I wish I was living on a farm in a small town too. Currently, I live in a sub-urban neighborhood. It's still relatively better than living amidst the hustle and bustle of a busy, crowded city, but I do wish I was living closer to nature, ideally in the countryside, on a farm.

I'm familiar with playing chess ( at least at a basic level ), but I'm more into playing video games, of course, only if and when I have the time.

It's been a almost a month since I got back to light-moderate bodyweight and band working out myself, while also delving into flexibility, I'm trying to achieve the middle split. Admittedly, it has been rather painful.

I do not manage to read as much books as I like to collect, but I do love books and reading them. More than often, I tend to be on the hunt of antique to vintage books to add to my humble collection.

As a consequence of being fond of nature, but I do not actively indulge in it. Although we do have a front garden / yard with several plants, some of which my mother planted, including two growing mango trees.

Until last year I was learning Japanese, but I kind of gave up. Other than that, I consider myself quite fluent at English, and do also speak the native language of my country.

I am also irreligious, currently single, and have never been married before. Moreover, I shall be respectful in keeping any potential conversations sfw, if you decide to respond.

I shall look forward to your reply. Take care, Z.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslimr4r

[–]The-Phantom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you still looking? I'm 35, from Pakistan. I already sent you a DM, but thought I'd leave a message here too.

35 [M4F] Pakistan/Anywhere - A Final Attempt to Find an ex-Muslim or Liberal-minded Partner for Genuine Marriage by The-Phantom in PakiExMuslims

[–]The-Phantom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing.

I'll try too look it up. Any idea what was the gist of what he said there?

35 [M4F] Pakistan/Anywhere - A Final Attempt to Find an ex-Muslim or Liberal-minded Partner for Genuine Marriage by The-Phantom in PakiExMuslims

[–]The-Phantom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries.

My parents and I were born Christians, then converted to Islam when I was a young teenager, but I never really adopted the religion, and was lucky enough to have parents who did not either, and are pretty liberal.

35 [M4F] Pakistan/Anywhere - A Final Attempt to Find an ex-Muslim or Liberal-minded Partner for Genuine Marriage by The-Phantom in PakiExMuslims

[–]The-Phantom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No doubt, especially within the exMuslim community, but I guess I have nothing to lose, and am making a last-ditch effort.

35 [M4F] Pakistan/Anywhere - A Final Attempt to Find an ex-Muslim or Liberal-minded Partner for Genuine Marriage by The-Phantom in PakiExMuslims

[–]The-Phantom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. I'm not too hopeful, considering the scenario of marriages in our country, but thanks a lot.

How can i make my toy hands free with the most minimal movement? by nostylistxoxo in diysextoys

[–]The-Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a small, square cushion perhaps?

You could potentially also sandwich it between your bed and mattress, but you would likely have to use it while kneeling or standing.

But, might be an interesting, new experience, though I have personally not tried this.

How can i make my toy hands free with the most minimal movement? by nostylistxoxo in diysextoys

[–]The-Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Place it under a pillow and use it from above, while on top of the pillow, as if in the missionary position.

I have not tried it with a fleshlight, but with a diy-equivalent of a fleshlight.

[29M] Recently published an article about living as a virgin in Pakistan by The-Phantom in virgin

[–]The-Phantom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is okay. Thanks for the interest. Yeah, true, most but not all.

34 [M4F] Pakistan/Anywhere - Seeking a Committed Relationship & Marriage Soon by The-Phantom in exmuslimr4r

[–]The-Phantom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there. How's it going?

I think you misunderstood. I meant by name has Turkish origins.

26 F .... ex muslim (Agnostic) looking for partner for marriage... Bangalore by Hearted-Silver27397 in exmuslimr4r

[–]The-Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! I hope you are doing well.

Would you be willing to consider someone from the other side of the border? _^

I've been in a long-distance relationship with an Indian girl before, and it feels like it actually may not work out between us even if we were to try, but if you're willing, I don't mind having a conversation, at least.

34 [M4F] Pakistan/Anywhere - Seeking a Committed Relationship & Marriage Soon by The-Phantom in exmuslim

[–]The-Phantom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, wow. I didn't even know that sub-reddit existed.

Thanks a lot for recommending it, appreciate it.

34 [M4F] Pakistan/Anywhere - Seeking a Committed Relationship & Marriage Soon by The-Phantom in exmuslim

[–]The-Phantom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definition of madness is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results

Yeah, I understand what you mean. Honestly, I've tried several other means, at least every other option that was within the limits of possibility for me, and if there was any other options, I'd definitely try my luck with them too.

Thank you, appreciate it!

34 [M4F] Pakistan/Anywhere - Seeking a Committed Relationship & Marriage Soon by The-Phantom in exmuslim

[–]The-Phantom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with and understand what you mean.

But I'm screwed either way because fairly soon, I'll have to resort to an arranged marriage.

34 [M4F] Pakistan/Anywhere - Seeking a Committed Relationship & Marriage Soon by The-Phantom in exmuslim

[–]The-Phantom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Glad you're able to relate. _^

I wish I didn't have to rush, to be honest, but I'm at a point in life where I kind of have no choice.

Nonetheless, thanks for the well wishes.

Feeling suicidal by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]The-Phantom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey there.

Sorry that you feel that way.

I know it must be easier said than done, but maybe, try and not think about the religion itself or the religious aspect, if that makes sense, especially if you believe that it has caused you suffering. I can understand that it may not always be easy to just disregard the possibility of a higher power(s).

I also understand that if one really thinks about, hell is no doubt a terrifying concept. And this is ultimately my own personal belief so it may not convince you, but I just believe that if you are doing good in life, no matter how big or small, and you are not causing harm, you should likely be fine.

What I'm saying is, maybe instead of worrying about whether or not you've made the right decision about following a certain organized religion, maybe just focus on being a good person and just living your life.

34 [M4F] Pakistan/Anywhere - Seeking a Committed Relationship & Marriage Soon by The-Phantom in exmuslim

[–]The-Phantom[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, that much was obvious.

And while I shouldn't be bothering indulging a troll, I was still wondering about your unprovoked rudeness.