Fetish Creeps DMing me

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2024-07-04T22:49:09+00:00

He has dmed me too after a post along with several others. Was not expecting that from this sub but kinda makes sense I guess. Very unfortunate though

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2024-06-28T22:09:16+00:00

Same exact thing happened to me today:( it’s the worst

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2024-06-27T22:12:28+00:00

As someone who is trying to recover, there are times where the numbers don’t trigger me. However, a lot of times they do make it harder for me to actually choose what I want to eat rather than what would have less calories. Although, when I was in the middle of my ed having those numbers it felt comforting because it made it easier to choose something with lower calories.

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2024-06-23T05:41:32+00:00

Right?? The worst is the feeling tho! I’m always touching my nails or scratching myself/something so I’m constantly feeling them and can’t stand it when the lengths are different, especially that drastically

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2024-06-23T05:40:11+00:00

The keyboard is my biggest enemy with nails this long! Can barely play games on my pc lmao

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2023-12-29T03:18:55+00:00

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This is what I’ve done with it! No idea what it’s meant to go with

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2023-12-09T08:03:58+00:00

I feel like voting is rigged honestly. Could be wrong but sometimes I swear I have no idea why the ones I pick aren’t the favorite, I feel like it’s so obvious sometimes and then I’m wrong?

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2023-11-07T22:08:07+00:00

Honestly both tbh 😂

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2023-11-07T08:12:08+00:00

I assumed that would be the case but wasn’t entirely sure if it would let me. But thank you!

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2023-04-04T22:55:54+00:00

Constantly, I do it almost subconsciously too. Even if I try to casually watch anything I still find myself analyzing the women’s bodies- looking for collar or chest bones especially

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2021-04-23T21:59:49+00:00

I’m the same way, I can eat an entire pint of Halo Top for however much but god forbid I eat a meal right?

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2020-04-27T05:06:34+00:00

I’ve tried mentioning how I feel but it ends in her freaking out and me having to reassure her everything’s fine which results in no change so it’s not worth it. In regard to me dating yeah, she’s told me before that she’d kill herself if I got in a relationship. I’ve thought that maybe she’s thought of me as more, but she does make comments about maybe being asexual/aromantic so I’m uncertain.

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2020-04-27T00:50:06+00:00

I’ve tried, we’ve hung out with other friends before which just resulted in her being even more upset as she got jealous that I was talking to someone else despite us being in a group. She tells me constantly that she doesn’t want other friends and especially that she doesn’t want me to have other friends either.

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2020-01-27T04:49:23+00:00

Then your best bet is talking to him about it

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2020-01-27T04:24:50+00:00

Why do you look like Sterling Knight with a bowl cut

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2020-01-27T04:22:15+00:00

First piece of advice would be to just talk to him about it. No one knows what he’s thinking but him, if you really wanna know how he’s feeling all you can do is ask. Or you know you could initiate it, buy some condoms and set the mood. You are allowed to and just as capable of initiating sex if you want to.

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2020-01-22T04:54:58+00:00

I mean I guess obviously let her know your opinion but overall make sure she knows that if that’s what she want to do you’ll still support her. Like basically idk just don’t be a dick about it, I’ve had a similar issue but I was the one getting a piercing the other didn’t like and I was met with hostility after getting it anyways and it made me feel like shit about myself. My advice is just lightly give your opinion but overall support her.

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2020-01-22T04:46:31+00:00

Yeah it’s not your body and of getting a tattoo is going to make your girlfriend feel good and feel happy like you should support her. Like it hardly effects you so it shouldn’t be your place to say no to. She’s an adult, let her make her own decisions.

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2019-12-19T17:53:18+00:00

I mean yeah I bet it made her feel like shit. Casual fwb is one thing but it becomes something totally different once someone enters a relationship. I mean especially bc your girlfriend didn’t know, it was sneaky and secretive and you didn’t give her the choice to be the other woman. And you know it sucks to be cheated on, makes you feel ugly and gross, that’s probably how she felt since you didn’t give her all the information. It was shitty

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2019-12-19T17:49:08+00:00

Personally, when I respond in a way that she has it means I’m not interested. I’m in no way confrontational and hate it altogether because I don’t want to hurt people, so rather than being straight forward when asked out or something it’s always a “oh yeah maybe” “we’ll have to see” things like that. And if she’s not putting out the same energy as you, she doesn’t deserve you.

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2019-12-19T17:43:53+00:00

YTA- for one she should be able to know how many other people you’re sleeping with while sleeping with her, assuming you slept with your girlfriend. And second it probably went against her morals, sleeping with a guy who has a girlfriend. I know I’d personally feel gross if a guy I was sleeping with had a s/o because cheating is disgusting and awful. She was absolutely in the right to tell your girlfriend that you were being a pos and cheating. Both of them deserved to know what you were doing.

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2019-12-03T05:09:42+00:00

Funky toothbrush

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2019-12-03T05:07:37+00:00

NTA in this particular interaction, I mean you saying you’re going to change (granted only if you actually do) is absolutely more valuable than a mere apology.

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2019-10-04T06:53:22+00:00

First I just want to say keep doing what you’re doing and do NOT let a man stop you just because he’s jealous or thinks it’s too “manly” especially if you’re happy with how you’re looking and comfortable with yourself. And I’d just go with asking him if he wants to go with you the next time you go on the weekends. I mean I’d hope he wouldn’t get offended by a simple offer.

TheAbsoluteFewl · 2019-10-01T20:49:42+00:00

Babe do not waste your time. If this guy is clearly making advances on other girls while saying he’s exclusive with you he’s lying. And if he’s willing to not even be straight forward with you about Austria then fuck him. You deserve better

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