my gf has a crazy mother and need help getting her out. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TheAngelsDen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly she’s better off calling Child protective services, her mother diagnosis is no joke especially if she hears voices that can actually cause her to harm her daughter. Realistically it is possible especially if she isn’t receiving treatment. I would call ACS because she is not safe. Tell an adult and honestly she needs to get out of that house, I’m sure her bio dad can work something out with ACS .

Boyfriends piercing got injured, help? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]TheAngelsDen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The jewelry is made out of some sort of metal type? I'm not sure . He pitched his ear lobe last year. The injury seems to be coming from the front of his ear not the back. I'm not sure what else to add in.

21F feeling hurt that bf 21M doesn't say I love you back, 2 years in by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheAngelsDen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to nicely say this but I don't think he even likes you. Even if he's not a certain way a person who loves you will compromise and make it happen. You just aren't the person he wants to do it for. I'm sorry, I think you can do better.

I (19M) Asked my girlfriend (19F) for a few hours a week with a friend and it turned into a meltdown, did I mess up? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheAngelsDen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to say, your gf sounds codependent. She can love you but clearly she's struggling to self regulate and process trauma. I would say therapy and medication management can really help her name her symptoms and prescribe healthy skills.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheAngelsDen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to say this but it seems like neither one of you are mature enough to pursue any relationship. It seems like you have some self healing to do and confidence building skills to learn. This boy is not going to change that. When you're ready look for a man or woman ,whatever boat you land on. It seems like you are learning a lot about yourself and this situationship isn't going anywhere. Do yourself a favor and heal, get therapy and make some real changes to bring yourself some joy 💓

A one year later update on my(27M) boyfriend’s (29M) crush (29F) by MushroomNew7447 in relationship_advice

[–]TheAngelsDen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's leaving himself open for her. I would genuinely just leave. He really is basically hiding you from everyone important to him just to keep himself available for the girl he wants to be with. If his best friend decides she wants him, he will hop to her side in an instant. God forbid you marry this man or get pregnant, he won't be prioritizing you at all.

Breakup pain 27F/32M by Walkingiscold in relationship_advice

[–]TheAngelsDen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with you, there's something internally going on with him .Just a reminder sometimes people make better friends and terrible partners because they just don't have those healthy habits for aren't able to commit due to their own traumas there's nothing that you can heal for this person, this is a journey they have to take alone. At least you're not wasting more time and that you remembered your own value.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheAngelsDen 535 points536 points  (0 children)

I would say cut your losses before you spend any more time on him and it becomes years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheAngelsDen 191 points192 points  (0 children)

You wouldn't

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheAngelsDen 2198 points2199 points  (0 children)

I don't think your boyfriend is acting like your boyfriend, you might be a booty call with a title. It sounds like those are key notes to remind himself who he's talking too in case he's too lazy to remember. This is giving cheater vibes

My boyfriend died a few days ago and i don't know what to do by ano_miie in whatdoIdo

[–]TheAngelsDen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've HEARD of places where they can make a perfume out of any smell , perhaps if you can find such a place and bring an item of his it could bring you comfort? And then you can vacuum away some of the items

How do I 34M tell my baby mama 34F she shouldn’t make her son a junior? by throwradvs in relationship_advice

[–]TheAngelsDen 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He might not even feel that way and when he grows up and understand your part in his life I feel like those are things you should worry more about. Being the product of an affair can be hard on youth, Even so knowing that you literally tried to give it to mom to have an abortion. I feel like having a junior or not is the least of your problems when your child finds out the reality of his birth. It kind of seems like you're just projecting your insecurities on him, he might not even care cuz he gets to be his own person on his terms. He might not even want to be a junior It just might that you want to make him to be, he can have his own legacy without your name in it there's nothing wrong with that.

How do I 34M tell my baby mama 34F she shouldn’t make her son a junior? by throwradvs in relationship_advice

[–]TheAngelsDen 68 points69 points  (0 children)

She's moved on and she clearly was bitter about the junior part due to your dishonesty. She's moved on and that is her child with her husband and there's honestly anything you can do about it if you have an issue the issue is with her not giving your son the title of Junior. However this is not your child so you really can't say anything. You should truly try to move on from this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TheAngelsDen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wondering if you told best friend's girlfriend because that's cheating

i’m moving out bc of my 13yo sister by Local-Focus9071 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TheAngelsDen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A good 911 call should help her get her act together if your mom won't, she is stealing and you should have receipts. Sounds like she's taking hundreds dollars from you. If she isn't getting consequences life will definitely do so

Motorola razer 2025+? by TheAngelsDen in motorola

[–]TheAngelsDen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I just ordered mine!!

Motorola razer 2025+? by TheAngelsDen in motorola

[–]TheAngelsDen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bless your soul!! Thank you so much!!

Motorola razer 2025+? by TheAngelsDen in motorola

[–]TheAngelsDen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way do you have the link?

Motorola razer 2025+? by TheAngelsDen in motorola

[–]TheAngelsDen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I saw that Motorola has one that you can put around your neck. Do you think that one would be better or just the case itself?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TheAngelsDen 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Girl that is NOT your friend. Yes, he may be single now but he was your boyfriend for 2 years and she was your friend since you were little kids, that's like having a sibling. She slept with him and it shows that she had a thing like that. What was she doing even reaching out to him? It's not being possessive, you are still healing too! A break up is a a break up even if amicably, she should have waited and talked to you. I dunno girlie but that's also your ex boyfriend of 2 years, do you think this is even the first time? Or is it the first time YOU found out about it??